always fantasizing about sex with my bf, but dissociate when it actually happens /u/floweruser12 Sex

I’m in love with my boyfriend. Sex is great and he does everything right, he’s super sweet and caring and knows how to satisfy me. I’d say I have a higher libido than the average person and I fantasize about having sex with him almost always on a daily basis. We’ve been dating for around a year now.

I don’t know exactly when this started happening to this extent, but when we actually have sex it feels like I’m almost dissociating. It feels great, but mentally I don’t feel all there. I don’t get that “surge” of feeling I used to when we had sex. It almost feels like it’s all going in fast motion and my feelings almost can’t “catch up” to what’s physically happening. Sometimes I cry after sex and I don’t know why. He never, and would never, do anything to hurt me or make me uncomfortable during sex. He’s always been great at checking in with me and making sure he’s doing things I want him to do. I don’t know what’s causing this disconnection when we’re having sex.

A side note, I’m wondering if this may be caused by the hormonal birth control I’m currently taking. I’ve been on the Yaz pill for about 7 weeks and I’ve been having mild mood swings occasionally.

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​r/sex I’m in love with my boyfriend. Sex is great and he does everything right, he’s super sweet and caring and knows how to satisfy me. I’d say I have a higher libido than the average person and I fantasize about having sex with him almost always on a daily basis. We’ve been dating for around a year now. I don’t know exactly when this started happening to this extent, but when we actually have sex it feels like I’m almost dissociating. It feels great, but mentally I don’t feel all there. I don’t get that “surge” of feeling I used to when we had sex. It almost feels like it’s all going in fast motion and my feelings almost can’t “catch up” to what’s physically happening. Sometimes I cry after sex and I don’t know why. He never, and would never, do anything to hurt me or make me uncomfortable during sex. He’s always been great at checking in with me and making sure he’s doing things I want him to do. I don’t know what’s causing this disconnection when we’re having sex. A side note, I’m wondering if this may be caused by the hormonal birth control I’m currently taking. I’ve been on the Yaz pill for about 7 weeks and I’ve been having mild mood swings occasionally. submitted by /u/floweruser12 [link] [comments] 

I’m in love with my boyfriend. Sex is great and he does everything right, he’s super sweet and caring and knows how to satisfy me. I’d say I have a higher libido than the average person and I fantasize about having sex with him almost always on a daily basis. We’ve been dating for around a year now.

I don’t know exactly when this started happening to this extent, but when we actually have sex it feels like I’m almost dissociating. It feels great, but mentally I don’t feel all there. I don’t get that “surge” of feeling I used to when we had sex. It almost feels like it’s all going in fast motion and my feelings almost can’t “catch up” to what’s physically happening. Sometimes I cry after sex and I don’t know why. He never, and would never, do anything to hurt me or make me uncomfortable during sex. He’s always been great at checking in with me and making sure he’s doing things I want him to do. I don’t know what’s causing this disconnection when we’re having sex.

A side note, I’m wondering if this may be caused by the hormonal birth control I’m currently taking. I’ve been on the Yaz pill for about 7 weeks and I’ve been having mild mood swings occasionally.

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