I’ve never used tampons because I was scared of them but after some time i decided to try one and it couldn’t go in because it hurt so bad. Also I’ve tried to finger myself and only one time it could go in without pain (i still don’t know how) and when I tried it many times again I couldn’t because of the same pain.
I’ve visited gynecology and said it to my doctor. I’ve never had sex so she only said “it’ll hurt for the first time, it hurts almost everyone” and she was kind of angry with me after I said i don’t use tampons. I don’t think she understood my pain.
With my boyfried (2 year relationship) we tried to have sex but i end up crying because the pain was unbearable. We tried it many times, also other positions (cowgirl was the most successfull, but still couldn’t do much). I feel bad for him that after 2 years we still can’t have sex.
I don’t even know why does it hurt, since my gynecologist wasn’t able to help me and there aren’t many gynecologist in my area so she’s the only doctor I can have. Does anyone know what it could be? Or how to get rid of it? Could it be strong and/or “badly placed” hymen?
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r/sex I’ve never used tampons because I was scared of them but after some time i decided to try one and it couldn’t go in because it hurt so bad. Also I’ve tried to finger myself and only one time it could go in without pain (i still don’t know how) and when I tried it many times again I couldn’t because of the same pain. I’ve visited gynecology and said it to my doctor. I’ve never had sex so she only said “it’ll hurt for the first time, it hurts almost everyone” and she was kind of angry with me after I said i don’t use tampons. I don’t think she understood my pain. With my boyfried (2 year relationship) we tried to have sex but i end up crying because the pain was unbearable. We tried it many times, also other positions (cowgirl was the most successfull, but still couldn’t do much). I feel bad for him that after 2 years we still can’t have sex. I don’t even know why does it hurt, since my gynecologist wasn’t able to help me and there aren’t many gynecologist in my area so she’s the only doctor I can have. Does anyone know what it could be? Or how to get rid of it? Could it be strong and/or “badly placed” hymen? submitted by /u/NoScarcity6573 [link] [comments]
I’ve never used tampons because I was scared of them but after some time i decided to try one and it couldn’t go in because it hurt so bad. Also I’ve tried to finger myself and only one time it could go in without pain (i still don’t know how) and when I tried it many times again I couldn’t because of the same pain.
I’ve visited gynecology and said it to my doctor. I’ve never had sex so she only said “it’ll hurt for the first time, it hurts almost everyone” and she was kind of angry with me after I said i don’t use tampons. I don’t think she understood my pain.
With my boyfried (2 year relationship) we tried to have sex but i end up crying because the pain was unbearable. We tried it many times, also other positions (cowgirl was the most successfull, but still couldn’t do much). I feel bad for him that after 2 years we still can’t have sex.
I don’t even know why does it hurt, since my gynecologist wasn’t able to help me and there aren’t many gynecologist in my area so she’s the only doctor I can have. Does anyone know what it could be? Or how to get rid of it? Could it be strong and/or “badly placed” hymen?
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