I recently had a realisation. I’m a very horny person. I love to touch myself. I love to talk about masturbation with strangers on Reddit. I love to sext to strangers in Reddit. I sometimes think about making myself an onlyfans account. But, I think I somehow can’t really express this in my relationship. I really enjoy the sex we have and I feel very intimate with her. But I feel like my dirty side takes place here or when I’m masturbating more than in my sex life with her. I think it used to be that she was initiating it more, but she’s struggling with a lower libido than usual lately. We’ve talked about it and it was good, she also said that I should put more effort into making her feel sexy and desired and initiate sex more often, but also especially create like s as sexy mood when we’re not immediately having sex, which is hard for me especially now when she’s often not in the mood. But already before I sometimes feel like if I let it all out it’s way too much which sometimes led to me reacting with “you’re so pretty” to a nude when I actually would have more thought something like “you won’t believe how hard this got me, I’d love to have your pussy in my face right now. I think I need to stroke right now”. I also suggested we should sexy sometimes and she said yes but somehow she hasn’t gotten back to it and I don’t wanna be like pushy. She also doesn’t know I’m active here and sext here sometimes which I feel bad for sometimes but I also think it would make her more insecure if I told her. For the same reason, I don’t want to suggest opening the relationship. I would love to explore my sexuality more together with her but somehow the stakes are higher so communication seems so much harder than with a stranger. Any advice for any aspect of my situation or similar experiences?
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r/sex I recently had a realisation. I’m a very horny person. I love to touch myself. I love to talk about masturbation with strangers on Reddit. I love to sext to strangers in Reddit. I sometimes think about making myself an onlyfans account. But, I think I somehow can’t really express this in my relationship. I really enjoy the sex we have and I feel very intimate with her. But I feel like my dirty side takes place here or when I’m masturbating more than in my sex life with her. I think it used to be that she was initiating it more, but she’s struggling with a lower libido than usual lately. We’ve talked about it and it was good, she also said that I should put more effort into making her feel sexy and desired and initiate sex more often, but also especially create like s as sexy mood when we’re not immediately having sex, which is hard for me especially now when she’s often not in the mood. But already before I sometimes feel like if I let it all out it’s way too much which sometimes led to me reacting with “you’re so pretty” to a nude when I actually would have more thought something like “you won’t believe how hard this got me, I’d love to have your pussy in my face right now. I think I need to stroke right now”. I also suggested we should sexy sometimes and she said yes but somehow she hasn’t gotten back to it and I don’t wanna be like pushy. She also doesn’t know I’m active here and sext here sometimes which I feel bad for sometimes but I also think it would make her more insecure if I told her. For the same reason, I don’t want to suggest opening the relationship. I would love to explore my sexuality more together with her but somehow the stakes are higher so communication seems so much harder than with a stranger. Any advice for any aspect of my situation or similar experiences? submitted by /u/Big_Meringue_2041 [link] [comments]
I recently had a realisation. I’m a very horny person. I love to touch myself. I love to talk about masturbation with strangers on Reddit. I love to sext to strangers in Reddit. I sometimes think about making myself an onlyfans account. But, I think I somehow can’t really express this in my relationship. I really enjoy the sex we have and I feel very intimate with her. But I feel like my dirty side takes place here or when I’m masturbating more than in my sex life with her. I think it used to be that she was initiating it more, but she’s struggling with a lower libido than usual lately. We’ve talked about it and it was good, she also said that I should put more effort into making her feel sexy and desired and initiate sex more often, but also especially create like s as sexy mood when we’re not immediately having sex, which is hard for me especially now when she’s often not in the mood. But already before I sometimes feel like if I let it all out it’s way too much which sometimes led to me reacting with “you’re so pretty” to a nude when I actually would have more thought something like “you won’t believe how hard this got me, I’d love to have your pussy in my face right now. I think I need to stroke right now”. I also suggested we should sexy sometimes and she said yes but somehow she hasn’t gotten back to it and I don’t wanna be like pushy. She also doesn’t know I’m active here and sext here sometimes which I feel bad for sometimes but I also think it would make her more insecure if I told her. For the same reason, I don’t want to suggest opening the relationship. I would love to explore my sexuality more together with her but somehow the stakes are higher so communication seems so much harder than with a stranger. Any advice for any aspect of my situation or similar experiences?
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