Sometimes all I want is 5 minutes of her full attention, like she’ll be stroking my hair but in a way that’s sort of like, not caring??? Like you can tell its heavy handed and kind of “ugh when can i stop doing this” kind of thing. Idk if i sound crazy or not… but usually when I look up at her as she’s stroking me she never really is looking at me… or is doing something else like being on her phone or is distracted. I just wanna give some context and say that she isnt really affectionate through touch… and finds is hard to get in the mood for sex. it’s usually me laying on her to initiate cuddles, she’s been working on intimacy as i’ve explained how it’s important for me. But I just feel like I need more than what I have been getting. I don’t want to break up with her as I feel like she gets me in so many ways, as i do for her. She can tend to be quite awkward too which i’m okay with, people are people and work through their own issues with things, but am i being enabling by not speaking all of my feelings and kind of putting my needs last? Sometimes idek why i ask because i know im just respecting her boundaries and these are the sacrifices you make in relationships but yeah.
i need therapy…. Seeing what reddit has to say first!
25F & 26F
submitted by /u/edelrid99
[link] [comments]
r/sex Sometimes all I want is 5 minutes of her full attention, like she’ll be stroking my hair but in a way that’s sort of like, not caring??? Like you can tell its heavy handed and kind of “ugh when can i stop doing this” kind of thing. Idk if i sound crazy or not… but usually when I look up at her as she’s stroking me she never really is looking at me… or is doing something else like being on her phone or is distracted. I just wanna give some context and say that she isnt really affectionate through touch… and finds is hard to get in the mood for sex. it’s usually me laying on her to initiate cuddles, she’s been working on intimacy as i’ve explained how it’s important for me. But I just feel like I need more than what I have been getting. I don’t want to break up with her as I feel like she gets me in so many ways, as i do for her. She can tend to be quite awkward too which i’m okay with, people are people and work through their own issues with things, but am i being enabling by not speaking all of my feelings and kind of putting my needs last? Sometimes idek why i ask because i know im just respecting her boundaries and these are the sacrifices you make in relationships but yeah. i need therapy…. Seeing what reddit has to say first! 25F & 26F submitted by /u/edelrid99 [link] [comments]
Sometimes all I want is 5 minutes of her full attention, like she’ll be stroking my hair but in a way that’s sort of like, not caring??? Like you can tell its heavy handed and kind of “ugh when can i stop doing this” kind of thing. Idk if i sound crazy or not… but usually when I look up at her as she’s stroking me she never really is looking at me… or is doing something else like being on her phone or is distracted. I just wanna give some context and say that she isnt really affectionate through touch… and finds is hard to get in the mood for sex. it’s usually me laying on her to initiate cuddles, she’s been working on intimacy as i’ve explained how it’s important for me. But I just feel like I need more than what I have been getting. I don’t want to break up with her as I feel like she gets me in so many ways, as i do for her. She can tend to be quite awkward too which i’m okay with, people are people and work through their own issues with things, but am i being enabling by not speaking all of my feelings and kind of putting my needs last? Sometimes idek why i ask because i know im just respecting her boundaries and these are the sacrifices you make in relationships but yeah.
i need therapy…. Seeing what reddit has to say first!
25F & 26F
submitted by /u/edelrid99
[link] [comments]