Will I ever feel the same? /u/vveeraelviira Sex

I recently broke up with a guy, with whom I had very strong attraction from the beginning. We could kiss for hours and the sex was mind-blowing. He was very good at oral sex and I would come every time we had sex. Sometimes it only took a few minutes for me to finish. I also wanted sex all the time with him. In the end, he turned out to be the absolute worst. Toxic behavior, never wanted to commit fully, treated me badly, had issues with alcohol consumption… hence I broke up with him this summer. Shortly after, I met this other guy who is the dream guy every girl wishes for. Handsome, sweet, kind, wants to settle down and start a relationship, he takes care of himself and, above all, treats me like a princess. The only issue, though, is the sex. I am crazy attracted to him but somehow I keep comparing him with my ex and I just can’t seem to enjoy sex with him the same way I did with my ex. He kisses well, but not as well as my ex and sometimes I don’t feel turned on enough when kissing and later when we have sex I struggle to come with him. He seems to take it personally. I’ve tried to instruct him and he is very determined to improve, which he has, but the thing is that I just don’t feel as aroused with him as I did with my ex, so I don’t come that easily. I feel that now I almost have this pressure to come, which makes it even worse and I keep wondering, will I ever be as aroused as I was with my ex and come as easily as I came with him?

I recently broke up with a guy, with whom I had very strong attraction from the beginning. We could kiss for hours and the sex was mind-blowing. He was very good at oral sex and I would come every time we had sex. Sometimes it only took a few minutes for me to finish. I also wanted sex all the time with him. In the end, he turned out to be the absolute worst. Toxic behavior, never wanted to commit fully, treated me badly, had issues with alcohol consumption… hence I broke up with him this summer. Shortly after, I met this other guy who is the dream guy every girl wishes for. Handsome, sweet, kind, wants to settle down and start a relationship, he takes care of himself and, above all, treats me like a princess. The only issue, though, is the sex. I am crazy attracted to him but somehow I keep comparing him with my ex and I just can’t seem to enjoy sex with him the same way I did with my ex. He kisses well, but not as well as my ex and sometimes I don’t feel turned on enough when kissing and later when we have sex I struggle to come with him. He seems to take it personally. I’ve tried to instruct him and he is very determined to improve, which he has, but the thing is that I just don’t feel as aroused with him as I did with my ex, so I don’t come that easily. I feel that now I almost have this pressure to come, which makes it even worse and I keep wondering, will I ever be as aroused as I was with my ex and come as easily as I came with him?