Hi, this is a throwaway account. I tried posting before but I think I used the wrong flair. I (F19) have been seeing this guy (M21) for a few months and we are really just having fun together and I care about him a lot. We had sex for the first time a month ago, it was great and he is great! So, he is my second intimate partner, so I’m not very experienced, and I don’t know much about what guys like and what is “normal” (not trying to kink shame, im just very new to it all). The past 3 or 4 times I’ve gone to his place, (I often go to his place after ive been at uni, and once I’m done at university, I usually have a workout, nothing fancy but just to keep my body active since I sit so much at uni.) He has asked me to “skip the shower” and just come to his place when I’m done working out. After the workout I’m usually pretty gross imo, plus I bike. As soon as I step through the door, he will take a big whiff in my armpits and my chest and crotch, and almost rip my clothes off and go down. It feels great when he goes down, but I feel like I stink and its hard to not feel gross. Is it like, normal for guys to like it sweaty? I know this is so gross but I don’t know where to ask if this is good? He is himself very clean and always smells really good. One time I did shower, I just felt so gross, and he almost seemed disappointed when he took my clothes off, he still went to town but I just felt bad cause he seemed genuinely disappointed when he first smelled and there was no “smell” (I’m so sorry I understand if this is super gross to read). Is there any risks of this health wise? Like, I’m not filthy, just a lot of sweat i guess, but I wonder if it’s bad for his or my health to not be completely clean? Idk is this normal? Is it a red flag I’m missing?
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r/sex Hi, this is a throwaway account. I tried posting before but I think I used the wrong flair. I (F19) have been seeing this guy (M21) for a few months and we are really just having fun together and I care about him a lot. We had sex for the first time a month ago, it was great and he is great! So, he is my second intimate partner, so I’m not very experienced, and I don’t know much about what guys like and what is “normal” (not trying to kink shame, im just very new to it all). The past 3 or 4 times I’ve gone to his place, (I often go to his place after ive been at uni, and once I’m done at university, I usually have a workout, nothing fancy but just to keep my body active since I sit so much at uni.) He has asked me to “skip the shower” and just come to his place when I’m done working out. After the workout I’m usually pretty gross imo, plus I bike. As soon as I step through the door, he will take a big whiff in my armpits and my chest and crotch, and almost rip my clothes off and go down. It feels great when he goes down, but I feel like I stink and its hard to not feel gross. Is it like, normal for guys to like it sweaty? I know this is so gross but I don’t know where to ask if this is good? He is himself very clean and always smells really good. One time I did shower, I just felt so gross, and he almost seemed disappointed when he took my clothes off, he still went to town but I just felt bad cause he seemed genuinely disappointed when he first smelled and there was no “smell” (I’m so sorry I understand if this is super gross to read). Is there any risks of this health wise? Like, I’m not filthy, just a lot of sweat i guess, but I wonder if it’s bad for his or my health to not be completely clean? Idk is this normal? Is it a red flag I’m missing? submitted by /u/Ecstatic_Cupcake_231 [link] [comments]
Hi, this is a throwaway account. I tried posting before but I think I used the wrong flair. I (F19) have been seeing this guy (M21) for a few months and we are really just having fun together and I care about him a lot. We had sex for the first time a month ago, it was great and he is great! So, he is my second intimate partner, so I’m not very experienced, and I don’t know much about what guys like and what is “normal” (not trying to kink shame, im just very new to it all). The past 3 or 4 times I’ve gone to his place, (I often go to his place after ive been at uni, and once I’m done at university, I usually have a workout, nothing fancy but just to keep my body active since I sit so much at uni.) He has asked me to “skip the shower” and just come to his place when I’m done working out. After the workout I’m usually pretty gross imo, plus I bike. As soon as I step through the door, he will take a big whiff in my armpits and my chest and crotch, and almost rip my clothes off and go down. It feels great when he goes down, but I feel like I stink and its hard to not feel gross. Is it like, normal for guys to like it sweaty? I know this is so gross but I don’t know where to ask if this is good? He is himself very clean and always smells really good. One time I did shower, I just felt so gross, and he almost seemed disappointed when he took my clothes off, he still went to town but I just felt bad cause he seemed genuinely disappointed when he first smelled and there was no “smell” (I’m so sorry I understand if this is super gross to read). Is there any risks of this health wise? Like, I’m not filthy, just a lot of sweat i guess, but I wonder if it’s bad for his or my health to not be completely clean? Idk is this normal? Is it a red flag I’m missing?
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