I need help with sex. I feel like I don’t want it as much (read below). /u/RomanticUnromcatic Sex

Hi Reddit! My girlfriend and I just had a conversation about how I don’t feel that comfortable receiving sex. I’ve been feeling this for a little and just told her. I feel like she wants to have it a lot and I just cant, but its not her, its me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but I feel shame around sex, anxiety and so on. This only started really recently, I used to be open about sex, and I wanted it a lot, but in only a few weeks its just not been great. Only really about receiving, but she said that I have seemed like I haven’t wanted to give recently. I didn’t realise, but maybe I do? I like sex, just not all the time I guess. I don’t want to hurt her feelings (I know you’ll say its about me too but I just feel like I have to sometimes. I don’t want her thinking that it is her and not me). What do I do? how do I get over shame and anxiety? I used to be so into sex but now I just feel weird about it.

Hi Reddit! My girlfriend and I just had a conversation about how I don’t feel that comfortable receiving sex. I’ve been feeling this for a little and just told her. I feel like she wants to have it a lot and I just cant, but its not her, its me. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but I feel shame around sex, anxiety and so on. This only started really recently, I used to be open about sex, and I wanted it a lot, but in only a few weeks its just not been great. Only really about receiving, but she said that I have seemed like I haven’t wanted to give recently. I didn’t realise, but maybe I do? I like sex, just not all the time I guess. I don’t want to hurt her feelings (I know you’ll say its about me too but I just feel like I have to sometimes. I don’t want her thinking that it is her and not me). What do I do? how do I get over shame and anxiety? I used to be so into sex but now I just feel weird about it.