Does too much stimulation ruin orgasms, or what am I doing wrong? /u/Error_Unintentional Sex

So I have noticed a few times with different partners in the past (and my current) that I’m playing with their clit and it seems like I’m doing well and they enjoy it but then they seem to push me away or signal to calm down (not in a “i don’t want to have sex” way -to be clear) it happens when they’re building up to orgasm and seem close, but it didn’t seem like an orgasm happened so I’m kind of confused and the women I’ve been with like this aren’t good at talking about sex or describing anything. So does too much stimulating ruin an orgasm or stop it from happening?

The only feedback I get from my current partner is “i don’t know” although they also said once that the clock ticking was putting them off. 🤦‍♂️

So I have noticed a few times with different partners in the past (and my current) that I’m playing with their clit and it seems like I’m doing well and they enjoy it but then they seem to push me away or signal to calm down (not in a “i don’t want to have sex” way -to be clear) it happens when they’re building up to orgasm and seem close, but it didn’t seem like an orgasm happened so I’m kind of confused and the women I’ve been with like this aren’t good at talking about sex or describing anything. So does too much stimulating ruin an orgasm or stop it from happening?

The only feedback I get from my current partner is “i don’t know” although they also said once that the clock ticking was putting them off. 🤦‍♂️