Me (24F) and my bf (26M) been dating for 4 years now, ever since we met he’s had his hair short, never going past his ears and i think it looked neat, simple and attractive as it suits his features better.
THIS year, we’re seriously discussing engagement, and he’s decided to grow his hair so, so long. Beyond his shoulders now, it’s bothering me when we kiss, when we have sex, and simply everything. It doesn’t suit him in any way and makes him look juvenile and unprofessional.
Whenever i’d see our framed pictures around the house i’d tell him how much he looked so “hot” then, and i do still like him now. Its just his long hair that i hate.
I made it clear so many times that he should a haircut, as it suits him better, but he doesnt want to, and mentioned that if i want him to cut his, they he gets to tell me to cut mine too (which i wouldnt?..) and started sleeping in the couch and im left alone in the bedroom.
Any help would be appreciated, am i making it a big deal? Am i wrong for telling him what to do? I was never into guys with long hair at all..
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r/sex Me (24F) and my bf (26M) been dating for 4 years now, ever since we met he’s had his hair short, never going past his ears and i think it looked neat, simple and attractive as it suits his features better. THIS year, we’re seriously discussing engagement, and he’s decided to grow his hair so, so long. Beyond his shoulders now, it’s bothering me when we kiss, when we have sex, and simply everything. It doesn’t suit him in any way and makes him look juvenile and unprofessional. Whenever i’d see our framed pictures around the house i’d tell him how much he looked so “hot” then, and i do still like him now. Its just his long hair that i hate. I made it clear so many times that he should a haircut, as it suits him better, but he doesnt want to, and mentioned that if i want him to cut his, they he gets to tell me to cut mine too (which i wouldnt?..) and started sleeping in the couch and im left alone in the bedroom. Any help would be appreciated, am i making it a big deal? Am i wrong for telling him what to do? I was never into guys with long hair at all.. submitted by /u/ViciousNattie [link] [comments]
Me (24F) and my bf (26M) been dating for 4 years now, ever since we met he’s had his hair short, never going past his ears and i think it looked neat, simple and attractive as it suits his features better.
THIS year, we’re seriously discussing engagement, and he’s decided to grow his hair so, so long. Beyond his shoulders now, it’s bothering me when we kiss, when we have sex, and simply everything. It doesn’t suit him in any way and makes him look juvenile and unprofessional.
Whenever i’d see our framed pictures around the house i’d tell him how much he looked so “hot” then, and i do still like him now. Its just his long hair that i hate.
I made it clear so many times that he should a haircut, as it suits him better, but he doesnt want to, and mentioned that if i want him to cut his, they he gets to tell me to cut mine too (which i wouldnt?..) and started sleeping in the couch and im left alone in the bedroom.
Any help would be appreciated, am i making it a big deal? Am i wrong for telling him what to do? I was never into guys with long hair at all..
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