Wife’s prickly pubic hairs /u/Rudyverboven2 Sex

She shaves her pubic hair regularly, every couple of days, so it is almost constantly very prickly. Especially the hair around the labia give me discomfort during sex. Sometimes it’s just a slight annoyance, other times it actually hurts me, in some positions. So it is kind of a turn-off for me. It also gives me the feeling that she does not care about my comfort in this situation, and the fact that our disagreement feels unresolved takes me a bit out of the moment during sex, when i start noticing the prickly hair.

So to improve things I would want to find a solution together, but whenever I bring it up we end up in a stalemate.

I suggest she could try to stop shaving, or trim it longer. She does not want that cause what if she wears a swimming suit.

And if not maybe try sugar waxing, I hear that it is much less painfull than normal waxing (only of course it is very easy for me to say). Mainly she does not want because of the cost (Even if I suggest to try it one time, and I will pay for it).

Anybody with similar experience? Other options or ideas? How do I bring it up again in a better way?

And there is a lot of caveats about this I don’t want to control her choices of her body. I know how all that sounds. And it is not the idea that her body should be just designed or optimized for my pleasure. But I feel my experience in this situation deserves a place.

Now that I wrote this, maybe she is just in need of a new razor. As it seems to have gotten worse lately. I will suggest that first of all.

She shaves her pubic hair regularly, every couple of days, so it is almost constantly very prickly. Especially the hair around the labia give me discomfort during sex. Sometimes it’s just a slight annoyance, other times it actually hurts me, in some positions. So it is kind of a turn-off for me. It also gives me the feeling that she does not care about my comfort in this situation, and the fact that our disagreement feels unresolved takes me a bit out of the moment during sex, when i start noticing the prickly hair.

So to improve things I would want to find a solution together, but whenever I bring it up we end up in a stalemate.

I suggest she could try to stop shaving, or trim it longer. She does not want that cause what if she wears a swimming suit.

And if not maybe try sugar waxing, I hear that it is much less painfull than normal waxing (only of course it is very easy for me to say). Mainly she does not want because of the cost (Even if I suggest to try it one time, and I will pay for it).

Anybody with similar experience? Other options or ideas? How do I bring it up again in a better way?

And there is a lot of caveats about this I don’t want to control her choices of her body. I know how all that sounds. And it is not the idea that her body should be just designed or optimized for my pleasure. But I feel my experience in this situation deserves a place.

Now that I wrote this, maybe she is just in need of a new razor. As it seems to have gotten worse lately. I will suggest that first of all.