I (18f) am only able to cum one specific way and no matter how hard I try I cannot cum any other way. The way is do it is very weird and I’ve never heard of anyone else doing it. Basically what I do is I apply pressure and rub right above my clit, like not even touching it at all, essentially on my mons pubis, while simultaneously squeezing my legs together and clenching all my muscles, which is exhausting and genuinely feels like a workout. I started doing this at a very young age and it’s the only way I have been able to cum for years. In the past I use to be able to cum by stimulating my clit but since I started doing it the “weird way” I have not, and I mean NOT, been able to cum any other way. Alone or with a partner, turned on or not, watching porn, using a vibrator, all types of penetration, getting fingered by myself and by a partner, having sex, using a dildo, getting eaten out, rubbing my clit, NOTHING works other than the “weird” way. I am starting to wonder if it has something to do with my weight, since I am overweight and hold a lot of fat on my mons pubis/ vagina area. It makes me feel like I’m broken. I have tried to make myself cum for hours at a time before and nothing, I don’t even get close. Sex always feels good, like I should be able to cum from it but I just don’t. If anyone knows how I could possibly fix this or even the reason for it PLEASE let me know.
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r/sex I (18f) am only able to cum one specific way and no matter how hard I try I cannot cum any other way. The way is do it is very weird and I’ve never heard of anyone else doing it. Basically what I do is I apply pressure and rub right above my clit, like not even touching it at all, essentially on my mons pubis, while simultaneously squeezing my legs together and clenching all my muscles, which is exhausting and genuinely feels like a workout. I started doing this at a very young age and it’s the only way I have been able to cum for years. In the past I use to be able to cum by stimulating my clit but since I started doing it the “weird way” I have not, and I mean NOT, been able to cum any other way. Alone or with a partner, turned on or not, watching porn, using a vibrator, all types of penetration, getting fingered by myself and by a partner, having sex, using a dildo, getting eaten out, rubbing my clit, NOTHING works other than the “weird” way. I am starting to wonder if it has something to do with my weight, since I am overweight and hold a lot of fat on my mons pubis/ vagina area. It makes me feel like I’m broken. I have tried to make myself cum for hours at a time before and nothing, I don’t even get close. Sex always feels good, like I should be able to cum from it but I just don’t. If anyone knows how I could possibly fix this or even the reason for it PLEASE let me know. submitted by /u/wallfloweronvenus [link] [comments]
I (18f) am only able to cum one specific way and no matter how hard I try I cannot cum any other way. The way is do it is very weird and I’ve never heard of anyone else doing it. Basically what I do is I apply pressure and rub right above my clit, like not even touching it at all, essentially on my mons pubis, while simultaneously squeezing my legs together and clenching all my muscles, which is exhausting and genuinely feels like a workout. I started doing this at a very young age and it’s the only way I have been able to cum for years. In the past I use to be able to cum by stimulating my clit but since I started doing it the “weird way” I have not, and I mean NOT, been able to cum any other way. Alone or with a partner, turned on or not, watching porn, using a vibrator, all types of penetration, getting fingered by myself and by a partner, having sex, using a dildo, getting eaten out, rubbing my clit, NOTHING works other than the “weird” way. I am starting to wonder if it has something to do with my weight, since I am overweight and hold a lot of fat on my mons pubis/ vagina area. It makes me feel like I’m broken. I have tried to make myself cum for hours at a time before and nothing, I don’t even get close. Sex always feels good, like I should be able to cum from it but I just don’t. If anyone knows how I could possibly fix this or even the reason for it PLEASE let me know.
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