My boyfriend (22m) and I (25m) and I have been together for close to two years. Sexually the relationship has never been great, but we did usually have sex 2-3 times per week. Anal maybe once a week. He always has to plan sex, and I can’t initiate it or he will get this look of horror and it won’t happen. Now we haven’t had sex in over a week and he hasn’t said a word about that. He’s told me three times though out the last week that we will have sex on this day/time, and then that time passes and he says nothing. Like I said, I can’t bring up having sex or he gets upset, so I have to wait for him.
I just feel like I have no voice in my own sex life and if I try he will find a way to control it. I also feel like not having sex for this long with no communication (when considering our normal frequency, that’s obviously different for everyone) is a sign that the relationship is dying. Am I overthinking this?
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r/sex My boyfriend (22m) and I (25m) and I have been together for close to two years. Sexually the relationship has never been great, but we did usually have sex 2-3 times per week. Anal maybe once a week. He always has to plan sex, and I can’t initiate it or he will get this look of horror and it won’t happen. Now we haven’t had sex in over a week and he hasn’t said a word about that. He’s told me three times though out the last week that we will have sex on this day/time, and then that time passes and he says nothing. Like I said, I can’t bring up having sex or he gets upset, so I have to wait for him. I just feel like I have no voice in my own sex life and if I try he will find a way to control it. I also feel like not having sex for this long with no communication (when considering our normal frequency, that’s obviously different for everyone) is a sign that the relationship is dying. Am I overthinking this? submitted by /u/aahnah [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (22m) and I (25m) and I have been together for close to two years. Sexually the relationship has never been great, but we did usually have sex 2-3 times per week. Anal maybe once a week. He always has to plan sex, and I can’t initiate it or he will get this look of horror and it won’t happen. Now we haven’t had sex in over a week and he hasn’t said a word about that. He’s told me three times though out the last week that we will have sex on this day/time, and then that time passes and he says nothing. Like I said, I can’t bring up having sex or he gets upset, so I have to wait for him.
I just feel like I have no voice in my own sex life and if I try he will find a way to control it. I also feel like not having sex for this long with no communication (when considering our normal frequency, that’s obviously different for everyone) is a sign that the relationship is dying. Am I overthinking this?
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