My fiancée and i very rarely have sex /u/ivory-branches Sex

I am M(24) with my fiancée of the same age for 3.4 years now.

Before her I was active in the kink/swing scene before we met but that kind of just fizzled out overtime my friends stopped being active and it got boring.

I met my fiancée and we have a very happy very healthy relationship we never argue we’re always happy together she truly is the love of my life.

We hardly have sex, she says not because she doesn’t want to even though her sex drive is low but because she is always on her period which is true, she’s seen doctors and had tests but as it usually goes the drs told her it’s normal or it was the pill she was on ( it is not) but even when she’s not on her period we can have sex for about 5 minutes before it hurts.

I love her with all my heart and we’ve had many conversations about this I’ve told her we don’t need to have full sex to have a sex life we could do hand stuff or oral or literally anything.

I am an incredibly sexual person If I had it my way I’d be in an active D/S relationship very sexually focused. From a young age it’s what has always driven me I’ve always been hyper sexual and sexually motivated. But I feel that as my needs are not being met I am becoming more and more frustrated and think about sex much more often.

The thing is when we first got together we had sex a lot then it began to hurt her more and slowly just fizzled out to where it now happens once a month if lucky.

I love her and I’d never leave her of cheat on her and I feel terrible for wanting more because she loves me more than I’ve been loved before she’s kind and attentive she listens to me and takes interest in the things I like, in all ways she is my best friend. but I cant help wanting more. And that makes me feel awful. I feel like what I have is already more than some people will ever find because I have found my true love.

What am I supposed to do? We’ve spoken about it so much before but no amount of communication seems to solve this issue she just has a low sex drive mixed with her medical problems it means it just doesn’t happen, and because of this nothing more happens. And it makes me feel awful for wanting more but at the age of 22 I should be having much more frequent sex and not living like a 40 year old man.

I am M(24) with my fiancée of the same age for 3.4 years now.

Before her I was active in the kink/swing scene before we met but that kind of just fizzled out overtime my friends stopped being active and it got boring.

I met my fiancée and we have a very happy very healthy relationship we never argue we’re always happy together she truly is the love of my life.

We hardly have sex, she says not because she doesn’t want to even though her sex drive is low but because she is always on her period which is true, she’s seen doctors and had tests but as it usually goes the drs told her it’s normal or it was the pill she was on ( it is not) but even when she’s not on her period we can have sex for about 5 minutes before it hurts.

I love her with all my heart and we’ve had many conversations about this I’ve told her we don’t need to have full sex to have a sex life we could do hand stuff or oral or literally anything.

I am an incredibly sexual person If I had it my way I’d be in an active D/S relationship very sexually focused. From a young age it’s what has always driven me I’ve always been hyper sexual and sexually motivated. But I feel that as my needs are not being met I am becoming more and more frustrated and think about sex much more often.

The thing is when we first got together we had sex a lot then it began to hurt her more and slowly just fizzled out to where it now happens once a month if lucky.

I love her and I’d never leave her of cheat on her and I feel terrible for wanting more because she loves me more than I’ve been loved before she’s kind and attentive she listens to me and takes interest in the things I like, in all ways she is my best friend. but I cant help wanting more. And that makes me feel awful. I feel like what I have is already more than some people will ever find because I have found my true love.

What am I supposed to do? We’ve spoken about it so much before but no amount of communication seems to solve this issue she just has a low sex drive mixed with her medical problems it means it just doesn’t happen, and because of this nothing more happens. And it makes me feel awful for wanting more but at the age of 22 I should be having much more frequent sex and not living like a 40 year old man.