Since our second child (5 years) (m 48)y wi(41)e is very worried about an unexpected pregnancy. So much so when we are intimate I know she is preoccupied. She takes the pill +/- 5 mins each day. I have to keep my briefs on if we make out and if pre-cum gets on anything nothing will happen waist down after that.
If things progress washing hands and areas that could have pre-cum get wiped down before a condom is put on. Finishinf by pulling out and inspecting immediately for evidence of failure is how it ends.
I’ve offered to get a vasectomy but she insists that she probably wouldn’t feel any more relaxed.
We use a wand or I go down on her more frequently but I get oral or an HJ less often.
It just seems way over stressed. Am I underestimating risk?
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r/sex Since our second child (5 years) (m 48)y wi(41)e is very worried about an unexpected pregnancy. So much so when we are intimate I know she is preoccupied. She takes the pill +/- 5 mins each day. I have to keep my briefs on if we make out and if pre-cum gets on anything nothing will happen waist down after that. If things progress washing hands and areas that could have pre-cum get wiped down before a condom is put on. Finishinf by pulling out and inspecting immediately for evidence of failure is how it ends. I’ve offered to get a vasectomy but she insists that she probably wouldn’t feel any more relaxed. We use a wand or I go down on her more frequently but I get oral or an HJ less often. It just seems way over stressed. Am I underestimating risk? submitted by /u/Mrrgsx [link] [comments]
Since our second child (5 years) (m 48)y wi(41)e is very worried about an unexpected pregnancy. So much so when we are intimate I know she is preoccupied. She takes the pill +/- 5 mins each day. I have to keep my briefs on if we make out and if pre-cum gets on anything nothing will happen waist down after that.
If things progress washing hands and areas that could have pre-cum get wiped down before a condom is put on. Finishinf by pulling out and inspecting immediately for evidence of failure is how it ends.
I’ve offered to get a vasectomy but she insists that she probably wouldn’t feel any more relaxed.
We use a wand or I go down on her more frequently but I get oral or an HJ less often.
It just seems way over stressed. Am I underestimating risk?
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