The situation is that my confidence (22M) is going down and I have huge performance pressure (which I built on myself only… partner supports me). I’m having performance pressure that I might not last long. In the beginning I used to last 30-40 mins . After few months it went down to 15-20 mins. But now sometimes its 5 mins, sometimes 10-15 mins, sometimes literally 2 mins only, occasionally 20+ mins. So now I’ve developed huge performance pressure due to many instances happened where we were on top horny mood but I lasted 5 mins or less and it killed the mood. And it has increased so much that last time I didn’t wanted to have sex due to this till I’ve recovered to my old timings. I’ll tell what things have changed and what I’m planning to do…. Last 7-8 months I had huge stress comparatively to last year, now that stress is gone atleast, I’ve gained weight/ fat. To last longer cardio is necessary ig so I’ve planned to lose weight and focus on my health. Also whenever she’s on top , either I cum early or if my dick isn’t fully hard then she might not feel in that position, other positions are fine. So tell me what to do!! Any tips on how to last longer, any personal tip, what to think, breathing techniques etc?
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r/sex The situation is that my confidence (22M) is going down and I have huge performance pressure (which I built on myself only… partner supports me). I’m having performance pressure that I might not last long. In the beginning I used to last 30-40 mins . After few months it went down to 15-20 mins. But now sometimes its 5 mins, sometimes 10-15 mins, sometimes literally 2 mins only, occasionally 20+ mins. So now I’ve developed huge performance pressure due to many instances happened where we were on top horny mood but I lasted 5 mins or less and it killed the mood. And it has increased so much that last time I didn’t wanted to have sex due to this till I’ve recovered to my old timings. I’ll tell what things have changed and what I’m planning to do…. Last 7-8 months I had huge stress comparatively to last year, now that stress is gone atleast, I’ve gained weight/ fat. To last longer cardio is necessary ig so I’ve planned to lose weight and focus on my health. Also whenever she’s on top , either I cum early or if my dick isn’t fully hard then she might not feel in that position, other positions are fine. So tell me what to do!! Any tips on how to last longer, any personal tip, what to think, breathing techniques etc? submitted by /u/AffectionateGate4391 [link] [comments]
The situation is that my confidence (22M) is going down and I have huge performance pressure (which I built on myself only… partner supports me). I’m having performance pressure that I might not last long. In the beginning I used to last 30-40 mins . After few months it went down to 15-20 mins. But now sometimes its 5 mins, sometimes 10-15 mins, sometimes literally 2 mins only, occasionally 20+ mins. So now I’ve developed huge performance pressure due to many instances happened where we were on top horny mood but I lasted 5 mins or less and it killed the mood. And it has increased so much that last time I didn’t wanted to have sex due to this till I’ve recovered to my old timings. I’ll tell what things have changed and what I’m planning to do…. Last 7-8 months I had huge stress comparatively to last year, now that stress is gone atleast, I’ve gained weight/ fat. To last longer cardio is necessary ig so I’ve planned to lose weight and focus on my health. Also whenever she’s on top , either I cum early or if my dick isn’t fully hard then she might not feel in that position, other positions are fine. So tell me what to do!! Any tips on how to last longer, any personal tip, what to think, breathing techniques etc?
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