i (F21) have no desire for sex with my boyfriend (M24).. how can i change/fix this? /u/Ok-Masterpiece5651 Sex

hi everyone. my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 4 years. we’ve lived together for about 2 years.

for the past couple of months, i’ve had very little to no desire to have sex/any physical intimacy with my boyfriend. in the beginning, i thought that perhaps it was because sex had randomly become painful for me. i would bleed afterwards and it would hurt quite a lot. however i went to the doctor and got a PAP smear, STD test just in case, and an exam and they said everything was fine.

that has improved but i still have no desire. the thought just has grossed me out in general for a while now. i have no idea why. my boyfriend says that i’m ignoring his needs, that i’m not caring for him, etc.

how can i fix this? what’s wrong with me?

hi everyone. my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 4 years. we’ve lived together for about 2 years.

for the past couple of months, i’ve had very little to no desire to have sex/any physical intimacy with my boyfriend. in the beginning, i thought that perhaps it was because sex had randomly become painful for me. i would bleed afterwards and it would hurt quite a lot. however i went to the doctor and got a PAP smear, STD test just in case, and an exam and they said everything was fine.

that has improved but i still have no desire. the thought just has grossed me out in general for a while now. i have no idea why. my boyfriend says that i’m ignoring his needs, that i’m not caring for him, etc.

how can i fix this? what’s wrong with me?