One time in the beginning stage of getting to know each other his friend asked what my bodycount was. (My now boyfriend was standing with us) I told them that I had slept with 2 people I had previously dated. Even though the dating part wasn’t a lie I had not slept with them. I was too embarrassed to tell the truth and say 0 since he’s more experienced than me. Now a few months later we’re together and I still haven’t told him. (At this point we have had sex)
To sum up: I lied cause I was embarrassed and insecure and also knew that he would probably be the one taking my virginity but didn’t want to make a big deal out of my first time and didn’t think it would lead to a serious relationship anyway.
Now the question: Should I tell him? I honestly don’t think he would care that much. But I‘m kind of curious about his reaction. Do you think it might be a turn off for him? As in why was she so insecure to lie to me about something like this. Or do you think he would be happy about being the one who took my virginity?
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r/NoStupidQuestions One time in the beginning stage of getting to know each other his friend asked what my bodycount was. (My now boyfriend was standing with us) I told them that I had slept with 2 people I had previously dated. Even though the dating part wasn’t a lie I had not slept with them. I was too embarrassed to tell the truth and say 0 since he’s more experienced than me. Now a few months later we’re together and I still haven’t told him. (At this point we have had sex) To sum up: I lied cause I was embarrassed and insecure and also knew that he would probably be the one taking my virginity but didn’t want to make a big deal out of my first time and didn’t think it would lead to a serious relationship anyway. Now the question: Should I tell him? I honestly don’t think he would care that much. But I‘m kind of curious about his reaction. Do you think it might be a turn off for him? As in why was she so insecure to lie to me about something like this. Or do you think he would be happy about being the one who took my virginity? submitted by /u/Fluffy_Brief_657 [link] [comments]
One time in the beginning stage of getting to know each other his friend asked what my bodycount was. (My now boyfriend was standing with us) I told them that I had slept with 2 people I had previously dated. Even though the dating part wasn’t a lie I had not slept with them. I was too embarrassed to tell the truth and say 0 since he’s more experienced than me. Now a few months later we’re together and I still haven’t told him. (At this point we have had sex)
To sum up: I lied cause I was embarrassed and insecure and also knew that he would probably be the one taking my virginity but didn’t want to make a big deal out of my first time and didn’t think it would lead to a serious relationship anyway.
Now the question: Should I tell him? I honestly don’t think he would care that much. But I‘m kind of curious about his reaction. Do you think it might be a turn off for him? As in why was she so insecure to lie to me about something like this. Or do you think he would be happy about being the one who took my virginity?
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