I(F18) and my boyfriend(M18) have been dating for a few months. From the beginning we had sex a lot and it was always pretty great but recently i feel like it stopped being pleasurable for him. For a few weeks now he’s only been able to come when i do it with my hands/mouth/feet etc. but whenever i get him to fuck me it just… feels like he isn’t into it. He doesn’t ever come, just either goes soft or says something that equals to “are you done?”, “can we stop now?”. It’s really getting to me since it’s never been an issue before and i’ve tried everything to make it better for him: less friction, more friction, kegels, different position, even putting in a buttplug to make it tighter. I tried talking to him about it and he denied everything and said that he still likes it and maybe it’s just because of his new antidepressants but if it was really from the medications then why does his libido work just fine when it’s not penetration? I can’t stop blaming myself for not being good enough of a sexual partner for him, I feel it must be something about me that turns him off. I just wanted to let out my frustrations and hopefully listen to some advice if anyone has had a similar experience from either side…
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r/sex I(F18) and my boyfriend(M18) have been dating for a few months. From the beginning we had sex a lot and it was always pretty great but recently i feel like it stopped being pleasurable for him. For a few weeks now he’s only been able to come when i do it with my hands/mouth/feet etc. but whenever i get him to fuck me it just… feels like he isn’t into it. He doesn’t ever come, just either goes soft or says something that equals to “are you done?”, “can we stop now?”. It’s really getting to me since it’s never been an issue before and i’ve tried everything to make it better for him: less friction, more friction, kegels, different position, even putting in a buttplug to make it tighter. I tried talking to him about it and he denied everything and said that he still likes it and maybe it’s just because of his new antidepressants but if it was really from the medications then why does his libido work just fine when it’s not penetration? I can’t stop blaming myself for not being good enough of a sexual partner for him, I feel it must be something about me that turns him off. I just wanted to let out my frustrations and hopefully listen to some advice if anyone has had a similar experience from either side… submitted by /u/Glad_Rise4885 [link] [comments]
I(F18) and my boyfriend(M18) have been dating for a few months. From the beginning we had sex a lot and it was always pretty great but recently i feel like it stopped being pleasurable for him. For a few weeks now he’s only been able to come when i do it with my hands/mouth/feet etc. but whenever i get him to fuck me it just… feels like he isn’t into it. He doesn’t ever come, just either goes soft or says something that equals to “are you done?”, “can we stop now?”. It’s really getting to me since it’s never been an issue before and i’ve tried everything to make it better for him: less friction, more friction, kegels, different position, even putting in a buttplug to make it tighter. I tried talking to him about it and he denied everything and said that he still likes it and maybe it’s just because of his new antidepressants but if it was really from the medications then why does his libido work just fine when it’s not penetration? I can’t stop blaming myself for not being good enough of a sexual partner for him, I feel it must be something about me that turns him off. I just wanted to let out my frustrations and hopefully listen to some advice if anyone has had a similar experience from either side…
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