I hope somebody can make any type of sense to this because I am at a loss. /u/CuriousCupiosexual Sex

My Girlfriend and I are together for 3 years now and all has been good and well sexually but since like the last 6 months this happens:

She likes sex, she enjoyes it a lot but only once the foreplay starts aka once she starts getting horny but she hates getting horny and physically stops herself from getting in the mood. Like ahe tells me “You are making me so wet right now”, she continuously touches my dick or chest and then she complains about how easly she gets aroused by me and when I tell her its completly fine and i actually am very flattered she just shuts herself down until she isnt horny or at least less horny anymore. Now i know what you guys are thinking. How about when she says that I seduce her a bit. Nope she completly shuts down there to. When my hands even go near her vulva she immideatly says “Noooo” pushes her legs together and pulls my hand away. I am gonna be honest everytime she does that I feel like i forcing her to sex which makes me gag at myself because that isnt my intention at all. Ok how about for example biting her neck. She loves that and always immideatly starts moaning when i do that. She moans and then after a bit she says “ok now stop. Thats enough”. The thing I know one thing about her if she would let me for example gently touch her vulva and slowly get in the mood she would be so wet and beg me for sex I know how she is. But i dont know since the last 6 months the above repeats over and over again.

So yeah thats my problem. I dont get her anymore. Non of this makes any sense to me anymore. If somebody can make sense about any of this pls reach out. If there are any questions feel free to ask.

TL;DR: GF touches my dick, chest and body in general sometimes even kisses my dick. Says how wet she is. And then refuses any attempts from me to give her a good time and i feel like a creep trying to sexually assault somebody because of how hard she denies any attempt.

PS: Oh thing I should mention I personally never engage sex cause I dont feel arousal or “horny” unless my partner feels it. I live to pleasure my partner and her moans give me pleasure. Thats just how I am.

My Girlfriend and I are together for 3 years now and all has been good and well sexually but since like the last 6 months this happens:

She likes sex, she enjoyes it a lot but only once the foreplay starts aka once she starts getting horny but she hates getting horny and physically stops herself from getting in the mood. Like ahe tells me “You are making me so wet right now”, she continuously touches my dick or chest and then she complains about how easly she gets aroused by me and when I tell her its completly fine and i actually am very flattered she just shuts herself down until she isnt horny or at least less horny anymore. Now i know what you guys are thinking. How about when she says that I seduce her a bit. Nope she completly shuts down there to. When my hands even go near her vulva she immideatly says “Noooo” pushes her legs together and pulls my hand away. I am gonna be honest everytime she does that I feel like i forcing her to sex which makes me gag at myself because that isnt my intention at all. Ok how about for example biting her neck. She loves that and always immideatly starts moaning when i do that. She moans and then after a bit she says “ok now stop. Thats enough”. The thing I know one thing about her if she would let me for example gently touch her vulva and slowly get in the mood she would be so wet and beg me for sex I know how she is. But i dont know since the last 6 months the above repeats over and over again.

So yeah thats my problem. I dont get her anymore. Non of this makes any sense to me anymore. If somebody can make sense about any of this pls reach out. If there are any questions feel free to ask.

TL;DR: GF touches my dick, chest and body in general sometimes even kisses my dick. Says how wet she is. And then refuses any attempts from me to give her a good time and i feel like a creep trying to sexually assault somebody because of how hard she denies any attempt.

PS: Oh thing I should mention I personally never engage sex cause I dont feel arousal or “horny” unless my partner feels it. I live to pleasure my partner and her moans give me pleasure. Thats just how I am.