Just getting out of a 20yr marriage to one of the most selfish sex partners I have ever had. Tonight I actually have a night alone and thinking of contacting a friend to have relations with, the problem is that for last 3 yrs of my marriage I had been celibate because he would just ridicule and body shame me for having stretch marks and extra weight (now I lost even more weight and gained MORE stretch marks). So my question is how do I actually relax enough to even attempt to get physical with another man that MIGHT end up being exactly who I just divorced? I have always been a sexual person just hated doing it with my ex husband (could count how many times he actually made me climax)
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r/sex Just getting out of a 20yr marriage to one of the most selfish sex partners I have ever had. Tonight I actually have a night alone and thinking of contacting a friend to have relations with, the problem is that for last 3 yrs of my marriage I had been celibate because he would just ridicule and body shame me for having stretch marks and extra weight (now I lost even more weight and gained MORE stretch marks). So my question is how do I actually relax enough to even attempt to get physical with another man that MIGHT end up being exactly who I just divorced? I have always been a sexual person just hated doing it with my ex husband (could count how many times he actually made me climax) submitted by /u/oklove918 [link] [comments]
Just getting out of a 20yr marriage to one of the most selfish sex partners I have ever had. Tonight I actually have a night alone and thinking of contacting a friend to have relations with, the problem is that for last 3 yrs of my marriage I had been celibate because he would just ridicule and body shame me for having stretch marks and extra weight (now I lost even more weight and gained MORE stretch marks). So my question is how do I actually relax enough to even attempt to get physical with another man that MIGHT end up being exactly who I just divorced? I have always been a sexual person just hated doing it with my ex husband (could count how many times he actually made me climax)
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