I (26F) have been talking to this guy (29M) for a couple weeks. We get along so well,and he was just different from any other guy I’ve talked to.
A couple days ago I spent the night and we had sex for the first time. After we had sex, I noticed things were a little different. So I gave it a few days and then sent him a message.
I said that I just wanted to check in as things felt a little different. Told him I loved getting to know him but I wanted to see if we were on the same page. I then gave him the out and said if he’s feeling unsure or your priorities have shifted, it’s all good, just to let me know…
His response was that he was unsure and after we had sex, it kinda of made him hit the brakes because it didn’t feel like we’re at the same place with it and that he may have got in his head as he felt like if I’m not enjoying it then neither is he.
For context, I’ve had a few partners and none of them have ever made me a priority when it came to sex. I told him this and that I’m trying to navigate that as it’s completely new to me and that it’s not that I wasn’t enjoying it etc.
Anyways, I was just wondering if I could get any insight on this and where he’s coming from or what I can do to maybe get us on the same page if that’s what he wants to continue to try to do.
TIA
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r/sex I (26F) have been talking to this guy (29M) for a couple weeks. We get along so well,and he was just different from any other guy I’ve talked to. A couple days ago I spent the night and we had sex for the first time. After we had sex, I noticed things were a little different. So I gave it a few days and then sent him a message. I said that I just wanted to check in as things felt a little different. Told him I loved getting to know him but I wanted to see if we were on the same page. I then gave him the out and said if he’s feeling unsure or your priorities have shifted, it’s all good, just to let me know… His response was that he was unsure and after we had sex, it kinda of made him hit the brakes because it didn’t feel like we’re at the same place with it and that he may have got in his head as he felt like if I’m not enjoying it then neither is he. For context, I’ve had a few partners and none of them have ever made me a priority when it came to sex. I told him this and that I’m trying to navigate that as it’s completely new to me and that it’s not that I wasn’t enjoying it etc. Anyways, I was just wondering if I could get any insight on this and where he’s coming from or what I can do to maybe get us on the same page if that’s what he wants to continue to try to do. TIA submitted by /u/WoodenNothing6597 [link] [comments]
I (26F) have been talking to this guy (29M) for a couple weeks. We get along so well,and he was just different from any other guy I’ve talked to.
A couple days ago I spent the night and we had sex for the first time. After we had sex, I noticed things were a little different. So I gave it a few days and then sent him a message.
I said that I just wanted to check in as things felt a little different. Told him I loved getting to know him but I wanted to see if we were on the same page. I then gave him the out and said if he’s feeling unsure or your priorities have shifted, it’s all good, just to let me know…
His response was that he was unsure and after we had sex, it kinda of made him hit the brakes because it didn’t feel like we’re at the same place with it and that he may have got in his head as he felt like if I’m not enjoying it then neither is he.
For context, I’ve had a few partners and none of them have ever made me a priority when it came to sex. I told him this and that I’m trying to navigate that as it’s completely new to me and that it’s not that I wasn’t enjoying it etc.
Anyways, I was just wondering if I could get any insight on this and where he’s coming from or what I can do to maybe get us on the same page if that’s what he wants to continue to try to do.
TIA
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