I (Female, 20) have fibromyalgia/constant chronic pain all over and have since I was 16. I can’t stop the pain, and me and my boyfriend (21) are used to the fact I can’t do a whole lot. Since my pain worsened over the last year, my sex drive has crashed HARD. I’m too in my head about my pain that I don’t even think about sex and never get the chance to initiate. And my boyfriend is very sexual and wants to be more active. I just honestly don’t know what to say when he asks about it, I want to do everything he wants me to but I really just can’t. But it’s every couple weeks he asks more of me and I just feel guilty. We are extremely in love, and neither of us want our relationship to end, and we’ve only been dating for less than 2 yrs. We’re both just so tired of the constant inability that I have. Any suggestions would be nice, just some sort of solution.
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r/sex I (Female, 20) have fibromyalgia/constant chronic pain all over and have since I was 16. I can’t stop the pain, and me and my boyfriend (21) are used to the fact I can’t do a whole lot. Since my pain worsened over the last year, my sex drive has crashed HARD. I’m too in my head about my pain that I don’t even think about sex and never get the chance to initiate. And my boyfriend is very sexual and wants to be more active. I just honestly don’t know what to say when he asks about it, I want to do everything he wants me to but I really just can’t. But it’s every couple weeks he asks more of me and I just feel guilty. We are extremely in love, and neither of us want our relationship to end, and we’ve only been dating for less than 2 yrs. We’re both just so tired of the constant inability that I have. Any suggestions would be nice, just some sort of solution. submitted by /u/Pure_Leather6210 [link] [comments]
I (Female, 20) have fibromyalgia/constant chronic pain all over and have since I was 16. I can’t stop the pain, and me and my boyfriend (21) are used to the fact I can’t do a whole lot. Since my pain worsened over the last year, my sex drive has crashed HARD. I’m too in my head about my pain that I don’t even think about sex and never get the chance to initiate. And my boyfriend is very sexual and wants to be more active. I just honestly don’t know what to say when he asks about it, I want to do everything he wants me to but I really just can’t. But it’s every couple weeks he asks more of me and I just feel guilty. We are extremely in love, and neither of us want our relationship to end, and we’ve only been dating for less than 2 yrs. We’re both just so tired of the constant inability that I have. Any suggestions would be nice, just some sort of solution.
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