Been with my wife (dating+married) for 20ish years. Within the last year or so I brought up the idea of swinging since its always been a fantasy of mine. We have played with another couple a few times in the past but It was never planned and I want to branch out (if that makes sense). She is always conservative about anything sex so while she never gets mad she just wont talk about anything dirty unless I bring it up at the right time.
After a night out with drinks we were fooling around in bed and I brought it up. Her response bewildered me. She said she wants to but could never go through with it. She wants me to force her to both fuck another man and force her to watch me with another woman. I didn’t know what to say. I have never heard anything remotely close to this coming out of her mouth. Only thing else I could get out of her is no big penises she would want one around my size.
I am not shaming her in anyway… I just don’t even know how to go about that. I would love for her to be involved in the search but she has 0 desire. I will have to bring it up again and pull more information from her but I cant just blast her with 1000 questions because she will just shut down.
In other words my brain is scrambled on how to even go about this. Any ideas?
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r/sex Been with my wife (dating+married) for 20ish years. Within the last year or so I brought up the idea of swinging since its always been a fantasy of mine. We have played with another couple a few times in the past but It was never planned and I want to branch out (if that makes sense). She is always conservative about anything sex so while she never gets mad she just wont talk about anything dirty unless I bring it up at the right time. After a night out with drinks we were fooling around in bed and I brought it up. Her response bewildered me. She said she wants to but could never go through with it. She wants me to force her to both fuck another man and force her to watch me with another woman. I didn’t know what to say. I have never heard anything remotely close to this coming out of her mouth. Only thing else I could get out of her is no big penises she would want one around my size. I am not shaming her in anyway… I just don’t even know how to go about that. I would love for her to be involved in the search but she has 0 desire. I will have to bring it up again and pull more information from her but I cant just blast her with 1000 questions because she will just shut down. In other words my brain is scrambled on how to even go about this. Any ideas? submitted by /u/Hot_Bet_5692 [link] [comments]
Been with my wife (dating+married) for 20ish years. Within the last year or so I brought up the idea of swinging since its always been a fantasy of mine. We have played with another couple a few times in the past but It was never planned and I want to branch out (if that makes sense). She is always conservative about anything sex so while she never gets mad she just wont talk about anything dirty unless I bring it up at the right time.
After a night out with drinks we were fooling around in bed and I brought it up. Her response bewildered me. She said she wants to but could never go through with it. She wants me to force her to both fuck another man and force her to watch me with another woman. I didn’t know what to say. I have never heard anything remotely close to this coming out of her mouth. Only thing else I could get out of her is no big penises she would want one around my size.
I am not shaming her in anyway… I just don’t even know how to go about that. I would love for her to be involved in the search but she has 0 desire. I will have to bring it up again and pull more information from her but I cant just blast her with 1000 questions because she will just shut down.
In other words my brain is scrambled on how to even go about this. Any ideas?
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