My wife likes it when I discuss my sexual fantasies with her during sex – which on its own is fine by me, she’s not judgmental or anything like that. She finds it a turn on. and that’s a good thing for me, right? Problem is, thinking through my fantasies and putting them into words during sex is too intense for me. Once I start, I can only last 30 seconds to a minute before I cum. It’s to the point I can even stop fucking her before I start talking and I will cum without stimulation from the scenarios I’m describing to her.
The end result of this is that I can’t fulfill her request to hear the things that turn me on unless we want sex to end very quickly. It takes me a bit after orgasm to be ready to go again, so diving straight into round 2 really isn’t an option.
Is there anything I can do about this? I’d like to be able to dial down the mental intensity a notch or two to where I can control myself.
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r/sex My wife likes it when I discuss my sexual fantasies with her during sex – which on its own is fine by me, she’s not judgmental or anything like that. She finds it a turn on. and that’s a good thing for me, right? Problem is, thinking through my fantasies and putting them into words during sex is too intense for me. Once I start, I can only last 30 seconds to a minute before I cum. It’s to the point I can even stop fucking her before I start talking and I will cum without stimulation from the scenarios I’m describing to her. The end result of this is that I can’t fulfill her request to hear the things that turn me on unless we want sex to end very quickly. It takes me a bit after orgasm to be ready to go again, so diving straight into round 2 really isn’t an option. Is there anything I can do about this? I’d like to be able to dial down the mental intensity a notch or two to where I can control myself. submitted by /u/throwawayforang [link] [comments]
My wife likes it when I discuss my sexual fantasies with her during sex – which on its own is fine by me, she’s not judgmental or anything like that. She finds it a turn on. and that’s a good thing for me, right? Problem is, thinking through my fantasies and putting them into words during sex is too intense for me. Once I start, I can only last 30 seconds to a minute before I cum. It’s to the point I can even stop fucking her before I start talking and I will cum without stimulation from the scenarios I’m describing to her.
The end result of this is that I can’t fulfill her request to hear the things that turn me on unless we want sex to end very quickly. It takes me a bit after orgasm to be ready to go again, so diving straight into round 2 really isn’t an option.
Is there anything I can do about this? I’d like to be able to dial down the mental intensity a notch or two to where I can control myself.
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