Why would my bf masterbating repetitivly *sometimes* make me upset /u/Straight-Ad-3116 Sex

My bf pleases himself pretty regularly and 99% of the time I don’t mind at all. He’s super attentive loving and caring. I love him so much it’s wild. But very rarely (last time i got upset was in june) he’ll tell me he finished, and it makes me unreasonably sad? I can’t figure out why. If he gets super upset or anxious he’ll do it to relax. And I don’t want him to feel controlled by me being upset on a random occasion. Anyone have any ideas to overcome this? We’ve talked about it and he’s aware. I want this feeling to go away because logically I know I shouldn’t care. And I know I don’t mind any other time. And after ive talked myself out of being upset im fine I’m just not sure why every once in a blue moon it hits me different. I appreciate any insight 🧡

My bf pleases himself pretty regularly and 99% of the time I don’t mind at all. He’s super attentive loving and caring. I love him so much it’s wild. But very rarely (last time i got upset was in june) he’ll tell me he finished, and it makes me unreasonably sad? I can’t figure out why. If he gets super upset or anxious he’ll do it to relax. And I don’t want him to feel controlled by me being upset on a random occasion. Anyone have any ideas to overcome this? We’ve talked about it and he’s aware. I want this feeling to go away because logically I know I shouldn’t care. And I know I don’t mind any other time. And after ive talked myself out of being upset im fine I’m just not sure why every once in a blue moon it hits me different. I appreciate any insight 🧡