I feel selfish and I really don’t know what to do about it… /u/throawayA99 Sex

Hi all!

I (25M) love my wife (24F). Since we have met, that we have had a huge connection, and she is without a doubt my best friend. We do everything together, we barely have any arguments, we have been married for 3 years and everything is great!

Earlier this year, we found out that she was pregnant and we were over the moon with the news, but unfortunately, this great feeling was short lived, since she had a miscarriage just 6 weeks after.

Since then, we kept trying to concebe as it was something we both wanted and this past October, we got the news that she was pregnant again, YAY!!!!

Now my problem… My wife was diagnosed with PCOS, and she is being followed. The problem is that ever since her diagnosis, our sex life has stalled to the point where is almost non existent. We only had sex on the dates that she was ovulating, and most of the times she would be in 4s and I would just finish inside of her.

I have spoken to her several times, but she cries every time saying that she finds me hot, that she wants me, but that she just never feels in the mood. She sad that PCOS causes this and she will try more times, but her promises fall short because it always ends up being the same thing.

Now, that she had been pregnant for almost 4 months, we have had sex once. I told her that I miss the sex, but mostly our intimacy. She says that is is in pain now and that is the reason we don’t do anything, and that she can’t not even do a bj because her lips are also hurting, since she is vomiting several times due to the pregnancy.

I did not and won’t cheat on my wife, but fuck me if I wouldn’t be lying about missing sex, the intimacy, the touch. I will not leave her, and I am very happy that we are starting a family. Before the diagnosis she was way more sexually active and we would do it several times a day even.

I find her hot, and want to cuddle and be intimate, give her pleasure, but there is always a reason why we can’t have anything. The other night she used her hand to pleasure me, sure it felt good, but I want more. I want my wife back and I am feeling so damn selfish to feel this way, even tho I know that this is not entirely her fault, and because of her illness.

On the other hand I am thrilled that we are having a baby! I know she will be the best mother and I am proud of her in every other aspect of our lives.

Any suggestions?

Hi all!

I (25M) love my wife (24F). Since we have met, that we have had a huge connection, and she is without a doubt my best friend. We do everything together, we barely have any arguments, we have been married for 3 years and everything is great!

Earlier this year, we found out that she was pregnant and we were over the moon with the news, but unfortunately, this great feeling was short lived, since she had a miscarriage just 6 weeks after.

Since then, we kept trying to concebe as it was something we both wanted and this past October, we got the news that she was pregnant again, YAY!!!!

Now my problem… My wife was diagnosed with PCOS, and she is being followed. The problem is that ever since her diagnosis, our sex life has stalled to the point where is almost non existent. We only had sex on the dates that she was ovulating, and most of the times she would be in 4s and I would just finish inside of her.

I have spoken to her several times, but she cries every time saying that she finds me hot, that she wants me, but that she just never feels in the mood. She sad that PCOS causes this and she will try more times, but her promises fall short because it always ends up being the same thing.

Now, that she had been pregnant for almost 4 months, we have had sex once. I told her that I miss the sex, but mostly our intimacy. She says that is is in pain now and that is the reason we don’t do anything, and that she can’t not even do a bj because her lips are also hurting, since she is vomiting several times due to the pregnancy.

I did not and won’t cheat on my wife, but fuck me if I wouldn’t be lying about missing sex, the intimacy, the touch. I will not leave her, and I am very happy that we are starting a family. Before the diagnosis she was way more sexually active and we would do it several times a day even.

I find her hot, and want to cuddle and be intimate, give her pleasure, but there is always a reason why we can’t have anything. The other night she used her hand to pleasure me, sure it felt good, but I want more. I want my wife back and I am feeling so damn selfish to feel this way, even tho I know that this is not entirely her fault, and because of her illness.

On the other hand I am thrilled that we are having a baby! I know she will be the best mother and I am proud of her in every other aspect of our lives.

Any suggestions?