My wife isn’t turned on by dirt talk, sexting, sharing fantasies, etc. and she isn’t big on making out or really anything that builds desire and worked with women I was with in the past. But those things are how I get turned on. It’s extremely frustrating and depressing because outside of actual sex, it’s impossible for us to both be turned on at the same time and impossible for me to successfully initiate with her. I feel like I simply don’t turn her on.
I’m attractive and have successfully seduced many women. But any attempts to seduce her are an absolute disappointing waste. I may as well be talking about politics or economics. Dry as sand…
It’s not a dead bedroom. We have sex several times a week. But she has to initiate.
She tells me to let her come around. But I need to be able to actively seduce. I need excitement and build up and passion. I don’t get to have that. And I’m kinda miserable without it. She doesn’t like anything that suggests that I want to have sex with her. She tells me that I turn her on naturally and that I don’t need to try. I struggle to believe that simply because my advances seem to do nothing for her.
We have talked about this a ton…
She says she likes “corny romantic stuff”. When I ask for her to elaborate, she doesn’t really. Keeps it vague. I think I’m romantic though. She doesn’t like to even talk about this stuff…
Any ideas on how I can seduce her without it looking like I’m trying to seduce her?
Thank you in advance.
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r/sex My wife isn’t turned on by dirt talk, sexting, sharing fantasies, etc. and she isn’t big on making out or really anything that builds desire and worked with women I was with in the past. But those things are how I get turned on. It’s extremely frustrating and depressing because outside of actual sex, it’s impossible for us to both be turned on at the same time and impossible for me to successfully initiate with her. I feel like I simply don’t turn her on. I’m attractive and have successfully seduced many women. But any attempts to seduce her are an absolute disappointing waste. I may as well be talking about politics or economics. Dry as sand… It’s not a dead bedroom. We have sex several times a week. But she has to initiate. She tells me to let her come around. But I need to be able to actively seduce. I need excitement and build up and passion. I don’t get to have that. And I’m kinda miserable without it. She doesn’t like anything that suggests that I want to have sex with her. She tells me that I turn her on naturally and that I don’t need to try. I struggle to believe that simply because my advances seem to do nothing for her. We have talked about this a ton… She says she likes “corny romantic stuff”. When I ask for her to elaborate, she doesn’t really. Keeps it vague. I think I’m romantic though. She doesn’t like to even talk about this stuff… Any ideas on how I can seduce her without it looking like I’m trying to seduce her? Thank you in advance. submitted by /u/Own_Discussion9906 [link] [comments]
My wife isn’t turned on by dirt talk, sexting, sharing fantasies, etc. and she isn’t big on making out or really anything that builds desire and worked with women I was with in the past. But those things are how I get turned on. It’s extremely frustrating and depressing because outside of actual sex, it’s impossible for us to both be turned on at the same time and impossible for me to successfully initiate with her. I feel like I simply don’t turn her on.
I’m attractive and have successfully seduced many women. But any attempts to seduce her are an absolute disappointing waste. I may as well be talking about politics or economics. Dry as sand…
It’s not a dead bedroom. We have sex several times a week. But she has to initiate.
She tells me to let her come around. But I need to be able to actively seduce. I need excitement and build up and passion. I don’t get to have that. And I’m kinda miserable without it. She doesn’t like anything that suggests that I want to have sex with her. She tells me that I turn her on naturally and that I don’t need to try. I struggle to believe that simply because my advances seem to do nothing for her.
We have talked about this a ton…
She says she likes “corny romantic stuff”. When I ask for her to elaborate, she doesn’t really. Keeps it vague. I think I’m romantic though. She doesn’t like to even talk about this stuff…
Any ideas on how I can seduce her without it looking like I’m trying to seduce her?
Thank you in advance.
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