My wife of 4 years, 8 years together (no kids), has been hooked on smut books for awhile now. She’s so hooked that it’s affecting our sex life. For 99% of our time together, the sex has been what most people would agree is traditional and “normal” (I pleasure her, she pleasures me, dirty talk, we both finish, etc). I have always been the one to take control and initiate sex, which I am fine with. She has always been receptive to my initiating, never rejecting me, until recently. Recently it has been a task to get her to agree to sex. So much so that it sparked an argument which eventually led to her saying to me that I’m too vanilla. I blamed the books in my head, but not out loud to her even though we both realize that’s the cause of her new opinion. I think she’s too embarrassed to tell me what she desires now. It has been almost a month now without sex. All of that to ask, what can I do like the men in the smut books do to surprise my wife during sex? TL:DR Wife is hooked on smut books. Affecting our sex life. What can I do like the men in the smut books do to surprise my wife during sex?
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r/sex My wife of 4 years, 8 years together (no kids), has been hooked on smut books for awhile now. She’s so hooked that it’s affecting our sex life. For 99% of our time together, the sex has been what most people would agree is traditional and “normal” (I pleasure her, she pleasures me, dirty talk, we both finish, etc). I have always been the one to take control and initiate sex, which I am fine with. She has always been receptive to my initiating, never rejecting me, until recently. Recently it has been a task to get her to agree to sex. So much so that it sparked an argument which eventually led to her saying to me that I’m too vanilla. I blamed the books in my head, but not out loud to her even though we both realize that’s the cause of her new opinion. I think she’s too embarrassed to tell me what she desires now. It has been almost a month now without sex. All of that to ask, what can I do like the men in the smut books do to surprise my wife during sex? TL:DR Wife is hooked on smut books. Affecting our sex life. What can I do like the men in the smut books do to surprise my wife during sex? submitted by /u/CurlyyLife [link] [comments]
My wife of 4 years, 8 years together (no kids), has been hooked on smut books for awhile now. She’s so hooked that it’s affecting our sex life. For 99% of our time together, the sex has been what most people would agree is traditional and “normal” (I pleasure her, she pleasures me, dirty talk, we both finish, etc). I have always been the one to take control and initiate sex, which I am fine with. She has always been receptive to my initiating, never rejecting me, until recently. Recently it has been a task to get her to agree to sex. So much so that it sparked an argument which eventually led to her saying to me that I’m too vanilla. I blamed the books in my head, but not out loud to her even though we both realize that’s the cause of her new opinion. I think she’s too embarrassed to tell me what she desires now. It has been almost a month now without sex. All of that to ask, what can I do like the men in the smut books do to surprise my wife during sex? TL:DR Wife is hooked on smut books. Affecting our sex life. What can I do like the men in the smut books do to surprise my wife during sex?
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