Hello, I am 43m and my partner is 32f. We have been together for over 14 years. Interestingly enough as I age I last longer, have grown larger down there and am in better shape then when I was 23. I could have sex for an hour maybe 2. My partner is the opposite. She cums almost instantly and often 4-5 times before I do. The biggest issue is that she is often too dry for penetration. I don’t know if this is a libido issue or what. This has been occurring for about a year now. All I know is if I go down on her being dry is not an issue and she never asks me to stop. I love her. I’ve had kids by her. However, I need a certain level of sexual activity that I feel I’m not getting from her. I do not want to cheat or be unloyal but I feel like I’m missing out on something I need. I work hard and lot and do everything I can to be a good father and husband but I need certain things. I wouldn’t consider myself high maintenance or demanding but long often and very experienced sex is something I do not think I can abstain from. Feedback would be appreciated. Am I too demanding, selfish or horny? I don’t want to be any of those but do not feel it’s fair to me to be punished for being healthy or at least that is how I feel, thanks.
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r/sex Hello, I am 43m and my partner is 32f. We have been together for over 14 years. Interestingly enough as I age I last longer, have grown larger down there and am in better shape then when I was 23. I could have sex for an hour maybe 2. My partner is the opposite. She cums almost instantly and often 4-5 times before I do. The biggest issue is that she is often too dry for penetration. I don’t know if this is a libido issue or what. This has been occurring for about a year now. All I know is if I go down on her being dry is not an issue and she never asks me to stop. I love her. I’ve had kids by her. However, I need a certain level of sexual activity that I feel I’m not getting from her. I do not want to cheat or be unloyal but I feel like I’m missing out on something I need. I work hard and lot and do everything I can to be a good father and husband but I need certain things. I wouldn’t consider myself high maintenance or demanding but long often and very experienced sex is something I do not think I can abstain from. Feedback would be appreciated. Am I too demanding, selfish or horny? I don’t want to be any of those but do not feel it’s fair to me to be punished for being healthy or at least that is how I feel, thanks. submitted by /u/tiger_392- [link] [comments]
Hello, I am 43m and my partner is 32f. We have been together for over 14 years. Interestingly enough as I age I last longer, have grown larger down there and am in better shape then when I was 23. I could have sex for an hour maybe 2. My partner is the opposite. She cums almost instantly and often 4-5 times before I do. The biggest issue is that she is often too dry for penetration. I don’t know if this is a libido issue or what. This has been occurring for about a year now. All I know is if I go down on her being dry is not an issue and she never asks me to stop. I love her. I’ve had kids by her. However, I need a certain level of sexual activity that I feel I’m not getting from her. I do not want to cheat or be unloyal but I feel like I’m missing out on something I need. I work hard and lot and do everything I can to be a good father and husband but I need certain things. I wouldn’t consider myself high maintenance or demanding but long often and very experienced sex is something I do not think I can abstain from. Feedback would be appreciated. Am I too demanding, selfish or horny? I don’t want to be any of those but do not feel it’s fair to me to be punished for being healthy or at least that is how I feel, thanks.
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