I’m pretty new to sex (yippeee its a lot of fun!) and I’m not sure how concerned I should be.
I know some aches and pains can happen, but I’m not sure if mine is a warning sign. I also have a family history of endometriosis.
1) I have a very high pain tolerance, so the pain is not intolerable, but almost nothing is. So I’m a bad judge of how severe it might be because I can blink anything off. 2) during sex, it’s more mild discomfort after three or so inches. 3) deep penetration feels like a dog stepping on your leg and putting all their weight on one spot. But inside me lol. 4) sometimes it gets a little rougher, but the pain is the same. 5) lubrication is not the issue, I am so serious. It’s not. 5a) the one time I wasn’t fully ready, it felt very tight, and uncomfortable that way, like an earring being placed in a partly closed piercing. 6) for a couple hours after I will cramp like I’m on my period. Every time. 7) I had the same cramping issue after I got a Pap smear. 8) It’s NOT like muscle soreness, and I’ve experienced that, it’s different.
All in all the pain doesn’t stop me from enjoying it at all, but it is still pain. It’s like spicy food I guess, where it adds to the flavor and tastes good but there is also pain.
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r/sex I’m pretty new to sex (yippeee its a lot of fun!) and I’m not sure how concerned I should be. I know some aches and pains can happen, but I’m not sure if mine is a warning sign. I also have a family history of endometriosis. 1) I have a very high pain tolerance, so the pain is not intolerable, but almost nothing is. So I’m a bad judge of how severe it might be because I can blink anything off. 2) during sex, it’s more mild discomfort after three or so inches. 3) deep penetration feels like a dog stepping on your leg and putting all their weight on one spot. But inside me lol. 4) sometimes it gets a little rougher, but the pain is the same. 5) lubrication is not the issue, I am so serious. It’s not. 5a) the one time I wasn’t fully ready, it felt very tight, and uncomfortable that way, like an earring being placed in a partly closed piercing. 6) for a couple hours after I will cramp like I’m on my period. Every time. 7) I had the same cramping issue after I got a Pap smear. 8) It’s NOT like muscle soreness, and I’ve experienced that, it’s different. All in all the pain doesn’t stop me from enjoying it at all, but it is still pain. It’s like spicy food I guess, where it adds to the flavor and tastes good but there is also pain. submitted by /u/Jeli15 [link] [comments]
I’m pretty new to sex (yippeee its a lot of fun!) and I’m not sure how concerned I should be.
I know some aches and pains can happen, but I’m not sure if mine is a warning sign. I also have a family history of endometriosis.
1) I have a very high pain tolerance, so the pain is not intolerable, but almost nothing is. So I’m a bad judge of how severe it might be because I can blink anything off. 2) during sex, it’s more mild discomfort after three or so inches. 3) deep penetration feels like a dog stepping on your leg and putting all their weight on one spot. But inside me lol. 4) sometimes it gets a little rougher, but the pain is the same. 5) lubrication is not the issue, I am so serious. It’s not. 5a) the one time I wasn’t fully ready, it felt very tight, and uncomfortable that way, like an earring being placed in a partly closed piercing. 6) for a couple hours after I will cramp like I’m on my period. Every time. 7) I had the same cramping issue after I got a Pap smear. 8) It’s NOT like muscle soreness, and I’ve experienced that, it’s different.
All in all the pain doesn’t stop me from enjoying it at all, but it is still pain. It’s like spicy food I guess, where it adds to the flavor and tastes good but there is also pain.
submitted by /u/Jeli15
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