“Starfish” Husband
My husband never touches me during sex.
He barely initiates sex. But when he does, he never touches me and he always asks me to give him head. If I initiate first, he always wants me to give him head. I can say that I always start by doing it 99% of the time we have sex.
Even when we are having sex, I’m always on top, whether it’s front facing him or facing back.
I’ve asked him to eat me out, but he refused and he’s scared how that would taste/smell. He has tried twice in ten years for a few seconds and doesn’t like it. He does not go near my boobs unless I specifically ask.
I would say we have sex every 3 months or so. I will initiate.
I was his first serious girlfriend and we have been together 10+ years. I was 21 going on 22 when we met and he was 29. I’m 33 now and he’s 40.
We don’t kiss during sex, almost 99% no foreplay.
Used to wear cute and sexy lingeries but he seemed not interested.
Everytime I make him finish, he goes right to bed or he will leave the room so I can finish myself off with privacy.
We both work. Similar incomes. His job is an office job but more stressful than my office work from home job.
I regularly do workouts, my friends are kinda jealous because I have a great butt and body.
He might be high functioning autistic/ADHD. He likes anime and computers. He enjoys doing four things at once like watching a movie while gaming while redditing while programming. He spends a lot of time in his man cave playing videogames. He does jerk off a lot and he watches a lot of porn and follows porn accounts on Instagram. He says he has a porn addiction. His porn preference is transgender women and I am a cisgender woman if it matters. He is not gay, I asked a million times.
He works out regularly and is on testosterone and Wellbutrin but the Wellbutrin doesn’t have sexual side effects. He was on Zoloft before which did affect sexual performance.
He loves being married to me because I’m well educated, well compensated, a traditional wife that cooks, cleans, does laundry and folds, grocery shops, takes out trash, does dishes, does the yard work and takes care of all our animals daily. He does NOT want a divorce. He gets sad even talking about our sex life because he feels like he lets me down. I don’t know what to tell him 😟. Any tips?
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r/sex “Starfish” Husband My husband never touches me during sex. He barely initiates sex. But when he does, he never touches me and he always asks me to give him head. If I initiate first, he always wants me to give him head. I can say that I always start by doing it 99% of the time we have sex. Even when we are having sex, I’m always on top, whether it’s front facing him or facing back. I’ve asked him to eat me out, but he refused and he’s scared how that would taste/smell. He has tried twice in ten years for a few seconds and doesn’t like it. He does not go near my boobs unless I specifically ask. I would say we have sex every 3 months or so. I will initiate. I was his first serious girlfriend and we have been together 10+ years. I was 21 going on 22 when we met and he was 29. I’m 33 now and he’s 40. We don’t kiss during sex, almost 99% no foreplay. Used to wear cute and sexy lingeries but he seemed not interested. Everytime I make him finish, he goes right to bed or he will leave the room so I can finish myself off with privacy. We both work. Similar incomes. His job is an office job but more stressful than my office work from home job. I regularly do workouts, my friends are kinda jealous because I have a great butt and body. He might be high functioning autistic/ADHD. He likes anime and computers. He enjoys doing four things at once like watching a movie while gaming while redditing while programming. He spends a lot of time in his man cave playing videogames. He does jerk off a lot and he watches a lot of porn and follows porn accounts on Instagram. He says he has a porn addiction. His porn preference is transgender women and I am a cisgender woman if it matters. He is not gay, I asked a million times. He works out regularly and is on testosterone and Wellbutrin but the Wellbutrin doesn’t have sexual side effects. He was on Zoloft before which did affect sexual performance. He loves being married to me because I’m well educated, well compensated, a traditional wife that cooks, cleans, does laundry and folds, grocery shops, takes out trash, does dishes, does the yard work and takes care of all our animals daily. He does NOT want a divorce. He gets sad even talking about our sex life because he feels like he lets me down. I don’t know what to tell him 😟. Any tips? submitted by /u/SweetKouignAmann [link] [comments]
“Starfish” Husband
My husband never touches me during sex.
He barely initiates sex. But when he does, he never touches me and he always asks me to give him head. If I initiate first, he always wants me to give him head. I can say that I always start by doing it 99% of the time we have sex.
Even when we are having sex, I’m always on top, whether it’s front facing him or facing back.
I’ve asked him to eat me out, but he refused and he’s scared how that would taste/smell. He has tried twice in ten years for a few seconds and doesn’t like it. He does not go near my boobs unless I specifically ask.
I would say we have sex every 3 months or so. I will initiate.
I was his first serious girlfriend and we have been together 10+ years. I was 21 going on 22 when we met and he was 29. I’m 33 now and he’s 40.
We don’t kiss during sex, almost 99% no foreplay.
Used to wear cute and sexy lingeries but he seemed not interested.
Everytime I make him finish, he goes right to bed or he will leave the room so I can finish myself off with privacy.
We both work. Similar incomes. His job is an office job but more stressful than my office work from home job.
I regularly do workouts, my friends are kinda jealous because I have a great butt and body.
He might be high functioning autistic/ADHD. He likes anime and computers. He enjoys doing four things at once like watching a movie while gaming while redditing while programming. He spends a lot of time in his man cave playing videogames. He does jerk off a lot and he watches a lot of porn and follows porn accounts on Instagram. He says he has a porn addiction. His porn preference is transgender women and I am a cisgender woman if it matters. He is not gay, I asked a million times.
He works out regularly and is on testosterone and Wellbutrin but the Wellbutrin doesn’t have sexual side effects. He was on Zoloft before which did affect sexual performance.
He loves being married to me because I’m well educated, well compensated, a traditional wife that cooks, cleans, does laundry and folds, grocery shops, takes out trash, does dishes, does the yard work and takes care of all our animals daily. He does NOT want a divorce. He gets sad even talking about our sex life because he feels like he lets me down. I don’t know what to tell him 😟. Any tips?
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