Me and girlfriend are both young, and each others first relationships. We are roughly 2 months into the relationship. I have always had a very high sex drive, and naturally want to have sex with her. She has told me that in the past, she believed she would wait 2 years into a relationship before having sex. Despite this, when we were first talking about sex, she initially seemed very interested in sexual things, though perhaps not penetration. We did share kinks, and discussed them somewhat often. She in the past has always insisted on, if we were to have sex, I needed to ask her ten times if she was certain about it. But one day roughly a month and a half in, she decided to give me a blowjob, and because we got carried away, I didn’t ask her first if she was sure. She wanted to lick my penis through my boxers, then suck it with her eyes closed, and that progression made me forget to ask. I didn’t cum because she would stop and start very abruptly. I reassured her that she wasn’t doing anything wrong, only that I had already masturbated that morning + the constant starting and stopping kept me from actually climaxing. After probably less than 5-10 minutes, she gave up, and since then refuses any talks about intimacy. She has told me it’s not a matter of her not feeling like I’m satisfied with her, but rather that she feels like she broke her own code with how fast we moved into it. Since then, I have only had a higher sex drive, but she seems like she has completely lost the desire to have sex for the foreseeable future, probably intending not to have sex until a year into the relationship. We both love each other, but I feel masturbating for the next 10-22 months is just kind of ridiculous. It just feels like the more sex related things we do, the less she wants to talk about it. I really don’t want to bring this up to her, but I’m honestly really stumped on what to do. Any sort of help or advice would be appreciated.
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r/sex Me and girlfriend are both young, and each others first relationships. We are roughly 2 months into the relationship. I have always had a very high sex drive, and naturally want to have sex with her. She has told me that in the past, she believed she would wait 2 years into a relationship before having sex. Despite this, when we were first talking about sex, she initially seemed very interested in sexual things, though perhaps not penetration. We did share kinks, and discussed them somewhat often. She in the past has always insisted on, if we were to have sex, I needed to ask her ten times if she was certain about it. But one day roughly a month and a half in, she decided to give me a blowjob, and because we got carried away, I didn’t ask her first if she was sure. She wanted to lick my penis through my boxers, then suck it with her eyes closed, and that progression made me forget to ask. I didn’t cum because she would stop and start very abruptly. I reassured her that she wasn’t doing anything wrong, only that I had already masturbated that morning + the constant starting and stopping kept me from actually climaxing. After probably less than 5-10 minutes, she gave up, and since then refuses any talks about intimacy. She has told me it’s not a matter of her not feeling like I’m satisfied with her, but rather that she feels like she broke her own code with how fast we moved into it. Since then, I have only had a higher sex drive, but she seems like she has completely lost the desire to have sex for the foreseeable future, probably intending not to have sex until a year into the relationship. We both love each other, but I feel masturbating for the next 10-22 months is just kind of ridiculous. It just feels like the more sex related things we do, the less she wants to talk about it. I really don’t want to bring this up to her, but I’m honestly really stumped on what to do. Any sort of help or advice would be appreciated. submitted by /u/Ok_Investment_7253 [link] [comments]
Me and girlfriend are both young, and each others first relationships. We are roughly 2 months into the relationship. I have always had a very high sex drive, and naturally want to have sex with her. She has told me that in the past, she believed she would wait 2 years into a relationship before having sex. Despite this, when we were first talking about sex, she initially seemed very interested in sexual things, though perhaps not penetration. We did share kinks, and discussed them somewhat often. She in the past has always insisted on, if we were to have sex, I needed to ask her ten times if she was certain about it. But one day roughly a month and a half in, she decided to give me a blowjob, and because we got carried away, I didn’t ask her first if she was sure. She wanted to lick my penis through my boxers, then suck it with her eyes closed, and that progression made me forget to ask. I didn’t cum because she would stop and start very abruptly. I reassured her that she wasn’t doing anything wrong, only that I had already masturbated that morning + the constant starting and stopping kept me from actually climaxing. After probably less than 5-10 minutes, she gave up, and since then refuses any talks about intimacy. She has told me it’s not a matter of her not feeling like I’m satisfied with her, but rather that she feels like she broke her own code with how fast we moved into it. Since then, I have only had a higher sex drive, but she seems like she has completely lost the desire to have sex for the foreseeable future, probably intending not to have sex until a year into the relationship. We both love each other, but I feel masturbating for the next 10-22 months is just kind of ridiculous. It just feels like the more sex related things we do, the less she wants to talk about it. I really don’t want to bring this up to her, but I’m honestly really stumped on what to do. Any sort of help or advice would be appreciated.
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