My girlfriend has a low libido and we’ve only been having sex once every 3-5 months. I get most horny in the morning; but could go most times of the evening.
I’m struggling because I feel like a freak. My size is an issue; and she’s hurt during sex. We bought the oughnut(a rubber barrier ring which helps with size); but I think she’s too scared to even try that.
I respect her feelings entirely; but I feel like my feelings of rejection are growing and they have nowhere to go; because that would place all the blame back on her, when it’s not her fault. It’s her body and she has the right to say when things hurt.
She’s not into oral so we can’t fix things that way; and mutual masturbation doesn’t work either. I’m running out of things I think I can do for us.
Anyone have the same struggle? Any advice appreciated too.
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r/sex My girlfriend has a low libido and we’ve only been having sex once every 3-5 months. I get most horny in the morning; but could go most times of the evening. I’m struggling because I feel like a freak. My size is an issue; and she’s hurt during sex. We bought the oughnut(a rubber barrier ring which helps with size); but I think she’s too scared to even try that. I respect her feelings entirely; but I feel like my feelings of rejection are growing and they have nowhere to go; because that would place all the blame back on her, when it’s not her fault. It’s her body and she has the right to say when things hurt. She’s not into oral so we can’t fix things that way; and mutual masturbation doesn’t work either. I’m running out of things I think I can do for us. Anyone have the same struggle? Any advice appreciated too. submitted by /u/Ok_Focus3040 [link] [comments]
My girlfriend has a low libido and we’ve only been having sex once every 3-5 months. I get most horny in the morning; but could go most times of the evening.
I’m struggling because I feel like a freak. My size is an issue; and she’s hurt during sex. We bought the oughnut(a rubber barrier ring which helps with size); but I think she’s too scared to even try that.
I respect her feelings entirely; but I feel like my feelings of rejection are growing and they have nowhere to go; because that would place all the blame back on her, when it’s not her fault. It’s her body and she has the right to say when things hurt.
She’s not into oral so we can’t fix things that way; and mutual masturbation doesn’t work either. I’m running out of things I think I can do for us.
Anyone have the same struggle? Any advice appreciated too.
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