Boyfriend is intimidated by a vibrator I hardly use /u/Inquisitive-m Sex

I really want my boyfriend to use a vibrator on me. Not every time- just every now and then to spice things up. Yes, vibrators are nice but I don’t need them to get off. I’ve proven this many times by cumming up to 5 times with him during one session of sex (often!) the idea of him being in control and giving me that much pleasure and controlling the settings is hot! He doesn’t see it that way and thinks he can’t compare to a vibrator and that it’s wrong of me to use it. He compares it to him asking me to use a pocket pussy in him and I said “a lot of guys do that”.

I could understand if we had bad sex but I cum multiple times with him and I’m mad about him. I adore this man and don’t watch porn or anything like that- I only get off to and with him. I hardly use the vibrator alone- maybe 2-5 times in the last year (we are long distance as he’s in the navy)

Has anyone had an issue like this and resolved it? What are your opinions on this?

One one hand, I LOVE that our sex is so intense and we are so connected but on the other I can’t understand why he wouldn’t want me to experience more pleasure? Surely it would be a turn on to see me enjoy myself in new ways?

We have had some sex issues in the past when he has had performance anxiety but those have been solved and haven’t been a consistent issue… if anything that would surely make him be more susceptible to the vibrator idea?

Am I being inconsiderate?

I really want my boyfriend to use a vibrator on me. Not every time- just every now and then to spice things up. Yes, vibrators are nice but I don’t need them to get off. I’ve proven this many times by cumming up to 5 times with him during one session of sex (often!) the idea of him being in control and giving me that much pleasure and controlling the settings is hot! He doesn’t see it that way and thinks he can’t compare to a vibrator and that it’s wrong of me to use it. He compares it to him asking me to use a pocket pussy in him and I said “a lot of guys do that”.

I could understand if we had bad sex but I cum multiple times with him and I’m mad about him. I adore this man and don’t watch porn or anything like that- I only get off to and with him. I hardly use the vibrator alone- maybe 2-5 times in the last year (we are long distance as he’s in the navy)

Has anyone had an issue like this and resolved it? What are your opinions on this?

One one hand, I LOVE that our sex is so intense and we are so connected but on the other I can’t understand why he wouldn’t want me to experience more pleasure? Surely it would be a turn on to see me enjoy myself in new ways?

We have had some sex issues in the past when he has had performance anxiety but those have been solved and haven’t been a consistent issue… if anything that would surely make him be more susceptible to the vibrator idea?

Am I being inconsiderate?