Am I overthinking it? /u/Great-Satisfaction52 Sex

Hi I’m 20M, and I’ve just lost my virginity with a 30F. We’ve had sex 4 times now I have enjoyed it ; However she doesn’t know I was a virgin before her and I am incredibly inexperienced, and she has lots of experience which is making me a little nervous.

She wants me to be more dominant & confident while initiating and during sex, but I’m not quite sure how to go about that. I’m so concentrated just the act of sex itself and not immediately unloading in her and it just drives everything else out of my mind.

I don’t know what position to be in. I don’t know how to be more confident and dominant with her. I don’t know how to be a better sex partner overall.

I really would just like her to feel satisfied as well, and for me to have a little more knowledge going into the fifth time.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

Hi I’m 20M, and I’ve just lost my virginity with a 30F. We’ve had sex 4 times now I have enjoyed it ; However she doesn’t know I was a virgin before her and I am incredibly inexperienced, and she has lots of experience which is making me a little nervous.

She wants me to be more dominant & confident while initiating and during sex, but I’m not quite sure how to go about that. I’m so concentrated just the act of sex itself and not immediately unloading in her and it just drives everything else out of my mind.

I don’t know what position to be in. I don’t know how to be more confident and dominant with her. I don’t know how to be a better sex partner overall.

I really would just like her to feel satisfied as well, and for me to have a little more knowledge going into the fifth time.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!