Is it possible to remove a kink? /u/musicallyused Sex

Is it possible to train yourself to remove a kink? Or at least not have it as the main source of enjoyment?

I (29F) have been betrayed in relationships in the past by men. But I unfortunately get turned on by the thought of them with someone else. It’s only fun for the few minutes I get off, then I go back into my sinking depression about my self worth. I don’t want to explore this in reality. I notice that the worse I feel about myself, that’s the fantasy I stick to. But it ruins the other 90% of my day.

So this may sound like a ridiculous question, but can I retrain my brain? Or how can I only need this kink sparingly. Ultimately I want to be present during sex with my partner!!!

Is it possible to train yourself to remove a kink? Or at least not have it as the main source of enjoyment?

I (29F) have been betrayed in relationships in the past by men. But I unfortunately get turned on by the thought of them with someone else. It’s only fun for the few minutes I get off, then I go back into my sinking depression about my self worth. I don’t want to explore this in reality. I notice that the worse I feel about myself, that’s the fantasy I stick to. But it ruins the other 90% of my day.

So this may sound like a ridiculous question, but can I retrain my brain? Or how can I only need this kink sparingly. Ultimately I want to be present during sex with my partner!!!