How do I go about it all? /u/SecureUniversity6813 Sex

So I (25f) have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We have great sex and he always always makes me finish!! But because we have been together for so long, I feel like I needed to spice things up. (Not because I’m bored, but I worry he’ll get bored). Well over a year ago I bought some cute lingerie and toys. Butt plugs, anal beads, vibrator, the lot. I am a very sexual person, and I enjoy sex and the feeling of being connected to my partner. But when it comes to toys and getting creative, I become extremely shy and nervous. I think it’s an element of rejection that scares me. What I am wondering, is how do I go about wearing my lingerie and using toys with him. Do I make it a surprise? Do I wait until we’re in the moment? I try and psych myself up in my head but i never manage to pull through!! Any advice is welcome and appreciated 🙌🏻

So I (25f) have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We have great sex and he always always makes me finish!! But because we have been together for so long, I feel like I needed to spice things up. (Not because I’m bored, but I worry he’ll get bored). Well over a year ago I bought some cute lingerie and toys. Butt plugs, anal beads, vibrator, the lot. I am a very sexual person, and I enjoy sex and the feeling of being connected to my partner. But when it comes to toys and getting creative, I become extremely shy and nervous. I think it’s an element of rejection that scares me. What I am wondering, is how do I go about wearing my lingerie and using toys with him. Do I make it a surprise? Do I wait until we’re in the moment? I try and psych myself up in my head but i never manage to pull through!! Any advice is welcome and appreciated 🙌🏻