I’m (27M)
This post is not going to a good place. It’s right out of left field so be warned.
It’s about death
My mom passed away a little over a month ago (feb 28, 2024) and I just can’t get into sex with my partner really at all.
I feel guilty because she really wants sex.
The most I can do is thigh jobs, fapping, or letting her do everything.
Climaxes are like a quick hit of nicotine to me right now.
When we have sex it’s just enough for me to get my high and stop, so I avoid it completely so I’m not a selfish lover.
I feel guilty for needing a significant break from sex as a man, like I’m not taking care of my girlfriend.
She’s supportive but when she uses her toy or watches hentai or initiates, I don’t say this to her but I feel guilty like I’ve failed her.
What are your thoughts?
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r/sex I’m (27M) This post is not going to a good place. It’s right out of left field so be warned. It’s about death My mom passed away a little over a month ago (feb 28, 2024) and I just can’t get into sex with my partner really at all. I feel guilty because she really wants sex. The most I can do is thigh jobs, fapping, or letting her do everything. Climaxes are like a quick hit of nicotine to me right now. When we have sex it’s just enough for me to get my high and stop, so I avoid it completely so I’m not a selfish lover. I feel guilty for needing a significant break from sex as a man, like I’m not taking care of my girlfriend. She’s supportive but when she uses her toy or watches hentai or initiates, I don’t say this to her but I feel guilty like I’ve failed her. What are your thoughts? submitted by /u/-KingMadLad- [link] [comments]
I’m (27M)
This post is not going to a good place. It’s right out of left field so be warned.
It’s about death
My mom passed away a little over a month ago (feb 28, 2024) and I just can’t get into sex with my partner really at all.
I feel guilty because she really wants sex.
The most I can do is thigh jobs, fapping, or letting her do everything.
Climaxes are like a quick hit of nicotine to me right now.
When we have sex it’s just enough for me to get my high and stop, so I avoid it completely so I’m not a selfish lover.
I feel guilty for needing a significant break from sex as a man, like I’m not taking care of my girlfriend.
She’s supportive but when she uses her toy or watches hentai or initiates, I don’t say this to her but I feel guilty like I’ve failed her.
What are your thoughts?
submitted by /u/-KingMadLad-
[link] [comments]