Some context that might be important: me F21 and him M20. I’ve lost my virginity few months ago and he’s the second person I’ve slept with and first ever serious relationship.
I don’t know why but I just can’t get myself in the mood. We’d do stuff like shower together or massages but it doesn’t do anything for me. I guess the way I see it is that he “expects” (I’m not sure what other word to use) this to lead to sex and it just takes out all the excitement for me. I don’t know. I guess when someone does things expecting them to end in a certain way, they just turn me off. I dont know if focusing on me would help either. For example, I can’t cum when he uses his hands and when he goes down on me it feels good but when he’s done the feeling of being covered in spit and it drying out really disgusts me 😭😭 so nowadays I usually tell him not to do it. What can we do to change it.
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r/sex Some context that might be important: me F21 and him M20. I’ve lost my virginity few months ago and he’s the second person I’ve slept with and first ever serious relationship. I don’t know why but I just can’t get myself in the mood. We’d do stuff like shower together or massages but it doesn’t do anything for me. I guess the way I see it is that he “expects” (I’m not sure what other word to use) this to lead to sex and it just takes out all the excitement for me. I don’t know. I guess when someone does things expecting them to end in a certain way, they just turn me off. I dont know if focusing on me would help either. For example, I can’t cum when he uses his hands and when he goes down on me it feels good but when he’s done the feeling of being covered in spit and it drying out really disgusts me 😭😭 so nowadays I usually tell him not to do it. What can we do to change it. submitted by /u/savewayvfromsm [link] [comments]
Some context that might be important: me F21 and him M20. I’ve lost my virginity few months ago and he’s the second person I’ve slept with and first ever serious relationship.
I don’t know why but I just can’t get myself in the mood. We’d do stuff like shower together or massages but it doesn’t do anything for me. I guess the way I see it is that he “expects” (I’m not sure what other word to use) this to lead to sex and it just takes out all the excitement for me. I don’t know. I guess when someone does things expecting them to end in a certain way, they just turn me off. I dont know if focusing on me would help either. For example, I can’t cum when he uses his hands and when he goes down on me it feels good but when he’s done the feeling of being covered in spit and it drying out really disgusts me 😭😭 so nowadays I usually tell him not to do it. What can we do to change it.
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