The first time we met we had really good sex. She gave me an incredible blowjob and after I went down on her she wasn’t able to cum. I asked her if there’s anything I can do to help her cum and she told me that she usually only cums with a vibrator and that she enjoyed it. I was ok with this as I’ve dated different women in the past and I know that some girls can cum very easily whilst others can’t.
On the second date, she brought a vibrator with her to my apartment and had told me prior that she always cums every night before bed to help her sleep better. When we got into bed she started blowing me and I told her to get the vibrator. I kissed her and stroked her while she used the vibrator before she told me to fuck her while she uses it. I found it a little tricky to navigate with the vibrator in missionary and eventually ran out of stamina. I then asked her if there’s anything else I can do to help her get there (without trying to apply too much pressure to her), and she told me she usually watches porn when she cums.
I made the suggestion to watch porn while she does it and she loaded up a video and laid next to me masturbating with the vibrator whilst watching a guy pounding his step sister. After 5 minutes she turned it off and said she couldn’t cum because we had already had sex. I felt a little weird to be honest and I kinda regretted suggesting that she watches porn. It was a bit of an emasculating feeling laying next to her doing nothing while she watches porn and vibrates.
Afterwards she asked if I want to cum and I said no because i’m tired (it was really late). We went to bed and it felt a little awkward. The next day she messaged me and is keen to go on another date in a few days.
I understand that communication is key in these sorts of things, but to be honest I feel a little lost with how to proceed. I want her to be able to feel satisfied with me and to cum before sleeping, but I don’t really like the idea of watching porn (i’ve recently cut down on my porn usage significantly in the last 6 months). I also feel a little one sided in the sense that she wants to make me cum and can give amazing blowjobs, but I can’t make her cum. It has left me feeling a little bit anxious about the next bedroom encounter we have.
Any advice from anyone with similar experiences or insights would be greatly appreciated.
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r/sex The first time we met we had really good sex. She gave me an incredible blowjob and after I went down on her she wasn’t able to cum. I asked her if there’s anything I can do to help her cum and she told me that she usually only cums with a vibrator and that she enjoyed it. I was ok with this as I’ve dated different women in the past and I know that some girls can cum very easily whilst others can’t. On the second date, she brought a vibrator with her to my apartment and had told me prior that she always cums every night before bed to help her sleep better. When we got into bed she started blowing me and I told her to get the vibrator. I kissed her and stroked her while she used the vibrator before she told me to fuck her while she uses it. I found it a little tricky to navigate with the vibrator in missionary and eventually ran out of stamina. I then asked her if there’s anything else I can do to help her get there (without trying to apply too much pressure to her), and she told me she usually watches porn when she cums. I made the suggestion to watch porn while she does it and she loaded up a video and laid next to me masturbating with the vibrator whilst watching a guy pounding his step sister. After 5 minutes she turned it off and said she couldn’t cum because we had already had sex. I felt a little weird to be honest and I kinda regretted suggesting that she watches porn. It was a bit of an emasculating feeling laying next to her doing nothing while she watches porn and vibrates. Afterwards she asked if I want to cum and I said no because i’m tired (it was really late). We went to bed and it felt a little awkward. The next day she messaged me and is keen to go on another date in a few days. I understand that communication is key in these sorts of things, but to be honest I feel a little lost with how to proceed. I want her to be able to feel satisfied with me and to cum before sleeping, but I don’t really like the idea of watching porn (i’ve recently cut down on my porn usage significantly in the last 6 months). I also feel a little one sided in the sense that she wants to make me cum and can give amazing blowjobs, but I can’t make her cum. It has left me feeling a little bit anxious about the next bedroom encounter we have. Any advice from anyone with similar experiences or insights would be greatly appreciated. submitted by /u/Most-Huckleberry-822 [link] [comments]
The first time we met we had really good sex. She gave me an incredible blowjob and after I went down on her she wasn’t able to cum. I asked her if there’s anything I can do to help her cum and she told me that she usually only cums with a vibrator and that she enjoyed it. I was ok with this as I’ve dated different women in the past and I know that some girls can cum very easily whilst others can’t.
On the second date, she brought a vibrator with her to my apartment and had told me prior that she always cums every night before bed to help her sleep better. When we got into bed she started blowing me and I told her to get the vibrator. I kissed her and stroked her while she used the vibrator before she told me to fuck her while she uses it. I found it a little tricky to navigate with the vibrator in missionary and eventually ran out of stamina. I then asked her if there’s anything else I can do to help her get there (without trying to apply too much pressure to her), and she told me she usually watches porn when she cums.
I made the suggestion to watch porn while she does it and she loaded up a video and laid next to me masturbating with the vibrator whilst watching a guy pounding his step sister. After 5 minutes she turned it off and said she couldn’t cum because we had already had sex. I felt a little weird to be honest and I kinda regretted suggesting that she watches porn. It was a bit of an emasculating feeling laying next to her doing nothing while she watches porn and vibrates.
Afterwards she asked if I want to cum and I said no because i’m tired (it was really late). We went to bed and it felt a little awkward. The next day she messaged me and is keen to go on another date in a few days.
I understand that communication is key in these sorts of things, but to be honest I feel a little lost with how to proceed. I want her to be able to feel satisfied with me and to cum before sleeping, but I don’t really like the idea of watching porn (i’ve recently cut down on my porn usage significantly in the last 6 months). I also feel a little one sided in the sense that she wants to make me cum and can give amazing blowjobs, but I can’t make her cum. It has left me feeling a little bit anxious about the next bedroom encounter we have.
Any advice from anyone with similar experiences or insights would be greatly appreciated.
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