Hello! I’m currently 32 and my partner is 36. We’ve been together for 6 and a half years and have made it through some pretty trying times – none being anything between us. I work a full-time remote job, and partner is currently unemployed. Some days I work 7 hours, most days I work about 12 hours.
Since day 1 our ‘arrangement’ was that I cook, he packs the dishwasher. This was great while he was working. He resigned from his job because we relocated to a different city.
We’re going on a year now of him being unemployed- I was lied to about LinkedIn applications he said he did but didn’t. No matter how many times I ask him to do things around the house, I end up having to do it myself anyway. No effort whatsoever, no matter how many times we talk about it. As such, I have no desire to have sex 🤷🏻♀️
What is happening? What do I do to encourage him to respect me and everything around him enough to contribute to the household, even if it is just doing some housework?
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r/sex Hello! I’m currently 32 and my partner is 36. We’ve been together for 6 and a half years and have made it through some pretty trying times – none being anything between us. I work a full-time remote job, and partner is currently unemployed. Some days I work 7 hours, most days I work about 12 hours. Since day 1 our ‘arrangement’ was that I cook, he packs the dishwasher. This was great while he was working. He resigned from his job because we relocated to a different city. We’re going on a year now of him being unemployed- I was lied to about LinkedIn applications he said he did but didn’t. No matter how many times I ask him to do things around the house, I end up having to do it myself anyway. No effort whatsoever, no matter how many times we talk about it. As such, I have no desire to have sex 🤷🏻♀️ What is happening? What do I do to encourage him to respect me and everything around him enough to contribute to the household, even if it is just doing some housework? submitted by /u/Dripdame5000 [link] [comments]
Hello! I’m currently 32 and my partner is 36. We’ve been together for 6 and a half years and have made it through some pretty trying times – none being anything between us. I work a full-time remote job, and partner is currently unemployed. Some days I work 7 hours, most days I work about 12 hours.
Since day 1 our ‘arrangement’ was that I cook, he packs the dishwasher. This was great while he was working. He resigned from his job because we relocated to a different city.
We’re going on a year now of him being unemployed- I was lied to about LinkedIn applications he said he did but didn’t. No matter how many times I ask him to do things around the house, I end up having to do it myself anyway. No effort whatsoever, no matter how many times we talk about it. As such, I have no desire to have sex 🤷🏻♀️
What is happening? What do I do to encourage him to respect me and everything around him enough to contribute to the household, even if it is just doing some housework?
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