When I am playing solo and looking at porn I can have intense orgasms with contractions but when I am with my partner, who mind you, is amazing in bed, my orgasms are nowhere near as intense (but I DO have them whereas with most lovers I have had I get nowhere near there). I know when I am watching porn my focus is completely on the video, watching everything, hearing everything. When I am having sex I obviously cannot see everything and with another person there, well, I find myself distracted. He says and does the dirty things to me I absolutely love and has taken me to places I have never been sexually and it has been nothing short of amazing. I now crave sex all the time. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can quiet my ADHD (yes, I do have ADHD) mind get to better orgasms with him?
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r/sex When I am playing solo and looking at porn I can have intense orgasms with contractions but when I am with my partner, who mind you, is amazing in bed, my orgasms are nowhere near as intense (but I DO have them whereas with most lovers I have had I get nowhere near there). I know when I am watching porn my focus is completely on the video, watching everything, hearing everything. When I am having sex I obviously cannot see everything and with another person there, well, I find myself distracted. He says and does the dirty things to me I absolutely love and has taken me to places I have never been sexually and it has been nothing short of amazing. I now crave sex all the time. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can quiet my ADHD (yes, I do have ADHD) mind get to better orgasms with him? submitted by /u/cumlovingoddess [link] [comments]
When I am playing solo and looking at porn I can have intense orgasms with contractions but when I am with my partner, who mind you, is amazing in bed, my orgasms are nowhere near as intense (but I DO have them whereas with most lovers I have had I get nowhere near there). I know when I am watching porn my focus is completely on the video, watching everything, hearing everything. When I am having sex I obviously cannot see everything and with another person there, well, I find myself distracted. He says and does the dirty things to me I absolutely love and has taken me to places I have never been sexually and it has been nothing short of amazing. I now crave sex all the time. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can quiet my ADHD (yes, I do have ADHD) mind get to better orgasms with him?
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