My boyfriend wants me to make him cry and then comfort him in a specific way afterwards, is it just a kink? /u/laweedaadeewal Sex

Note: My (22F) boyfriend (22M) is quite a masculine guy, (we’re both mma fighters but I’m not the muscular or masculine type at all).

Anyways, we both love him being submissive during sex. When it’s rough I usually slap him, choke him,pull his hair and overstimulate him etc. Pegging is not involved. It’s usually all fun and laughs.

Recently though he told me about a kink of his, he wants me to go so rough that he cries. We’ve tried this once before (a couple days ago) and he wanted to be comforted while he cries afterwards. Of course I was a bit worried but he assured me he just liked to cry as a sort of release. It kind of made me tear up too.

I understand it’s a kink, but how do I know if he ever genuinely cries from pain?

The reason I’m also quite worried is because he has his own set of mental health issues he deals with daily, and the crying reminds me of that, so does the comforting. Is it something deeper or am I just looking too much into it?

Has anyone else heard of something like this? If so, what should I know?

Sorry about the confusing post, I hope someone out there can understand as I know this isn’t that common.

Note: My (22F) boyfriend (22M) is quite a masculine guy, (we’re both mma fighters but I’m not the muscular or masculine type at all).

Anyways, we both love him being submissive during sex. When it’s rough I usually slap him, choke him,pull his hair and overstimulate him etc. Pegging is not involved. It’s usually all fun and laughs.

Recently though he told me about a kink of his, he wants me to go so rough that he cries. We’ve tried this once before (a couple days ago) and he wanted to be comforted while he cries afterwards. Of course I was a bit worried but he assured me he just liked to cry as a sort of release. It kind of made me tear up too.

I understand it’s a kink, but how do I know if he ever genuinely cries from pain?

The reason I’m also quite worried is because he has his own set of mental health issues he deals with daily, and the crying reminds me of that, so does the comforting. Is it something deeper or am I just looking too much into it?

Has anyone else heard of something like this? If so, what should I know?

Sorry about the confusing post, I hope someone out there can understand as I know this isn’t that common.