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i (f18) am in a relationship with my partner (38nb). they recently sent me their reddit and fetlife accounts and i’ve looked at them out of curiosity. i’ve found an extreme high amount of porn and activity almost at all times on reddit and fetlife. i know fetlife is a forum for porn and kink, but the sheer volume of comments , posts and status’ is crazy. i’ve found they would rather participate in very long discourses with strangers on the internet then respond to my messages some times and it feels hurtful. am i over reacting. i don’t care that they look at porn but i feel a little hurt that instead of being with me and talking to me they would rather do that.

i (f18) am in a relationship with my partner (38nb). they recently sent me their reddit and fetlife accounts and i’ve looked at them out of curiosity. i’ve found an extreme high amount of porn and activity almost at all times on reddit and fetlife. i know fetlife is a forum for porn and kink, but the sheer volume of comments , posts and status’ is crazy. i’ve found they would rather participate in very long discourses with strangers on the internet then respond to my messages some times and it feels hurtful. am i over reacting. i don’t care that they look at porn but i feel a little hurt that instead of being with me and talking to me they would rather do that.