My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have a generally pretty vanilla sex life, outside of a light power dynamic that hasn’t progressed beyond him holding my hands down, holding my neck, etc during sex. Last time I gave him a blowjob he said he wanted me to ask for it, the same way he sometimes makes me ask him to fuck me or ask him to cum inside me. He knows I’m pretty shy with talking about sex in general so I think it turns him on when he makes me push my boundaries like that. When he’s made me ask for PIV in the past I just say “please fuck me” which he seems to enjoy, but I don’t know how to translate that to asking to give him a blowjob. Like “please let me give you a blowjob” feels way too formal but “please fuck my mouth” feels way too aggressive (and not accurate to how I actually give him blowjobs). Any suggestions?
TLDR: How to I ask/beg someone if I can give them a blowjob in an appropriately submissive way?
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r/sex My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have a generally pretty vanilla sex life, outside of a light power dynamic that hasn’t progressed beyond him holding my hands down, holding my neck, etc during sex. Last time I gave him a blowjob he said he wanted me to ask for it, the same way he sometimes makes me ask him to fuck me or ask him to cum inside me. He knows I’m pretty shy with talking about sex in general so I think it turns him on when he makes me push my boundaries like that. When he’s made me ask for PIV in the past I just say “please fuck me” which he seems to enjoy, but I don’t know how to translate that to asking to give him a blowjob. Like “please let me give you a blowjob” feels way too formal but “please fuck my mouth” feels way too aggressive (and not accurate to how I actually give him blowjobs). Any suggestions? TLDR: How to I ask/beg someone if I can give them a blowjob in an appropriately submissive way? submitted by /u/OutrageousSeas [link] [comments]
My boyfriend (21M) and I (20F) have a generally pretty vanilla sex life, outside of a light power dynamic that hasn’t progressed beyond him holding my hands down, holding my neck, etc during sex. Last time I gave him a blowjob he said he wanted me to ask for it, the same way he sometimes makes me ask him to fuck me or ask him to cum inside me. He knows I’m pretty shy with talking about sex in general so I think it turns him on when he makes me push my boundaries like that. When he’s made me ask for PIV in the past I just say “please fuck me” which he seems to enjoy, but I don’t know how to translate that to asking to give him a blowjob. Like “please let me give you a blowjob” feels way too formal but “please fuck my mouth” feels way too aggressive (and not accurate to how I actually give him blowjobs). Any suggestions?
TLDR: How to I ask/beg someone if I can give them a blowjob in an appropriately submissive way?
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