How does sex work with your S/O /u/Plane-Jackfruit-3579 Sex

I (f23) have been with (m30) for a year and a half now. We live together and have been on multiple holidays. I keep having discussions with him that I don’t get enough sex. He said it’s not because he doesn’t want to and that his ex girlfriend used to say the same thing. :/ Now we’ve moved in I’m lucky I get it once a week only if I initiate it. Last night, we were in bed cuddling talking about random shit. I started touching and feeling him to initiate it and he didn’t flinch once or reciprocate or tell me no. When I went to touch his private parts it wasn’t even near to ready…so I asked him do you want to do it tonight and he was like it’s a bit late.

I don’t understand what else I can say to him? I feel like a weirdo having given so many signs I want to have sex for him to only say no once I’ve verbalised it. Is there anything else I can do or say because it’s really not enough for me.

I (f23) have been with (m30) for a year and a half now. We live together and have been on multiple holidays. I keep having discussions with him that I don’t get enough sex. He said it’s not because he doesn’t want to and that his ex girlfriend used to say the same thing. :/ Now we’ve moved in I’m lucky I get it once a week only if I initiate it. Last night, we were in bed cuddling talking about random shit. I started touching and feeling him to initiate it and he didn’t flinch once or reciprocate or tell me no. When I went to touch his private parts it wasn’t even near to ready…so I asked him do you want to do it tonight and he was like it’s a bit late.

I don’t understand what else I can say to him? I feel like a weirdo having given so many signs I want to have sex for him to only say no once I’ve verbalised it. Is there anything else I can do or say because it’s really not enough for me.