My girlfriend didn’t outright call me a misogynist or anything, but she did express that it was thinking rooted in misogyny. I just wanted to reach out to y’all to ask your thoughts on this subject and educate me if I’m wrong with my thinking.
My girlfriend and I were having a conversation about boundaries and what would be okay in our eyes. She is a bisexual female and I am a heterosexual male. I have expressed that I would be okay if she wanted to casually see females so she can explore her bisexuality but I would not be okay if she was seeing males. One thing that I said was that I do see men more as competition and the thought grosses me out but the thought of women don’t gross me out. She then says that my line of thinking means that I don’t see men and women the same and my thinking is rooted in misogyny.
I haven’t really done a lot of introspection or reasoning in my thinking, but I am obviously going to say that my thinking isn’t misogynistic. In my eyes, I think the thought of her playing with other women is fine (and turns me on) but the thought of other men fills me with dread. What do y’all think? Roast me if you have to, but I would love to see where the discussion might lead.
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r/sex My girlfriend didn’t outright call me a misogynist or anything, but she did express that it was thinking rooted in misogyny. I just wanted to reach out to y’all to ask your thoughts on this subject and educate me if I’m wrong with my thinking. My girlfriend and I were having a conversation about boundaries and what would be okay in our eyes. She is a bisexual female and I am a heterosexual male. I have expressed that I would be okay if she wanted to casually see females so she can explore her bisexuality but I would not be okay if she was seeing males. One thing that I said was that I do see men more as competition and the thought grosses me out but the thought of women don’t gross me out. She then says that my line of thinking means that I don’t see men and women the same and my thinking is rooted in misogyny. I haven’t really done a lot of introspection or reasoning in my thinking, but I am obviously going to say that my thinking isn’t misogynistic. In my eyes, I think the thought of her playing with other women is fine (and turns me on) but the thought of other men fills me with dread. What do y’all think? Roast me if you have to, but I would love to see where the discussion might lead. submitted by /u/JC_quarter [link] [comments]
My girlfriend didn’t outright call me a misogynist or anything, but she did express that it was thinking rooted in misogyny. I just wanted to reach out to y’all to ask your thoughts on this subject and educate me if I’m wrong with my thinking.
My girlfriend and I were having a conversation about boundaries and what would be okay in our eyes. She is a bisexual female and I am a heterosexual male. I have expressed that I would be okay if she wanted to casually see females so she can explore her bisexuality but I would not be okay if she was seeing males. One thing that I said was that I do see men more as competition and the thought grosses me out but the thought of women don’t gross me out. She then says that my line of thinking means that I don’t see men and women the same and my thinking is rooted in misogyny.
I haven’t really done a lot of introspection or reasoning in my thinking, but I am obviously going to say that my thinking isn’t misogynistic. In my eyes, I think the thought of her playing with other women is fine (and turns me on) but the thought of other men fills me with dread. What do y’all think? Roast me if you have to, but I would love to see where the discussion might lead.
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