I need help, I recently got engaged to a very manly man, and we are quite open minded sex wise. During our time together we have tried lots of different kinks but one seems to have become an obsession. Anal. Not just my ass but his own. He loves putting stuff up there, fingering, plugs, toys, objects, u name it and it’s going up there, multiple times a day. At first with the plugs it was a turn on however as the need for more and larger items has increased it’s too much, every sexual encounter we have includes his ass. How can someone want something in there so much? Going work? I’ll shove a toy in, fancy restaurant with family – fancy toy, having food – I wonder if this will fit in? Bath time- That bottle looks a nice shape?
How do I face this?
I’ve offered him sexual encounters with male friends, or swinging parties but he’s not into men, just his own ass. Each to their own I suppose and if it makes him happy then go for it champ butt if he wants to do something he asks if I want to do it too – for example “this carrot looks a good shape, you can shove it up your ass if you want see how it feels… I’ll have a go after too. Like dude I want a salad with that at no point was I thinking about shoving it up there. We live together and it’s constant, every single day I’m at work and get sent pictures of him with various things in there and hinting at things he wants up there when we both get home from work. Like I just want to get home and walk the dogs and shower without him joining me to douche!
It’s getting in the way of our relationship but if I say anything I know he will get butt hurt and see it as an attack on his manhood.
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r/sex I need help, I recently got engaged to a very manly man, and we are quite open minded sex wise. During our time together we have tried lots of different kinks but one seems to have become an obsession. Anal. Not just my ass but his own. He loves putting stuff up there, fingering, plugs, toys, objects, u name it and it’s going up there, multiple times a day. At first with the plugs it was a turn on however as the need for more and larger items has increased it’s too much, every sexual encounter we have includes his ass. How can someone want something in there so much? Going work? I’ll shove a toy in, fancy restaurant with family – fancy toy, having food – I wonder if this will fit in? Bath time- That bottle looks a nice shape? How do I face this? I’ve offered him sexual encounters with male friends, or swinging parties but he’s not into men, just his own ass. Each to their own I suppose and if it makes him happy then go for it champ butt if he wants to do something he asks if I want to do it too – for example “this carrot looks a good shape, you can shove it up your ass if you want see how it feels… I’ll have a go after too. Like dude I want a salad with that at no point was I thinking about shoving it up there. We live together and it’s constant, every single day I’m at work and get sent pictures of him with various things in there and hinting at things he wants up there when we both get home from work. Like I just want to get home and walk the dogs and shower without him joining me to douche! It’s getting in the way of our relationship but if I say anything I know he will get butt hurt and see it as an attack on his manhood. submitted by /u/Next_Adhesiveness656 [link] [comments]
I need help, I recently got engaged to a very manly man, and we are quite open minded sex wise. During our time together we have tried lots of different kinks but one seems to have become an obsession. Anal. Not just my ass but his own. He loves putting stuff up there, fingering, plugs, toys, objects, u name it and it’s going up there, multiple times a day. At first with the plugs it was a turn on however as the need for more and larger items has increased it’s too much, every sexual encounter we have includes his ass. How can someone want something in there so much? Going work? I’ll shove a toy in, fancy restaurant with family – fancy toy, having food – I wonder if this will fit in? Bath time- That bottle looks a nice shape?
How do I face this?
I’ve offered him sexual encounters with male friends, or swinging parties but he’s not into men, just his own ass. Each to their own I suppose and if it makes him happy then go for it champ butt if he wants to do something he asks if I want to do it too – for example “this carrot looks a good shape, you can shove it up your ass if you want see how it feels… I’ll have a go after too. Like dude I want a salad with that at no point was I thinking about shoving it up there. We live together and it’s constant, every single day I’m at work and get sent pictures of him with various things in there and hinting at things he wants up there when we both get home from work. Like I just want to get home and walk the dogs and shower without him joining me to douche!
It’s getting in the way of our relationship but if I say anything I know he will get butt hurt and see it as an attack on his manhood.
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