My (34M)recent partner (34F)seems to believe that fingering and oral is only for warm ups, and if I finish before her she refuses to allow me to please her using fingering or oral. I have my “recharge” period to get erect again, and she seems to not understand that even after communication. Her logic is “that is only for lesbians and if I wanted that I’d be lesbian”.
My question really is this a typical response? My gut says no, and her rigid framework about sex really is taking away from our bedroom experience.
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r/sex My (34M)recent partner (34F)seems to believe that fingering and oral is only for warm ups, and if I finish before her she refuses to allow me to please her using fingering or oral. I have my “recharge” period to get erect again, and she seems to not understand that even after communication. Her logic is “that is only for lesbians and if I wanted that I’d be lesbian”. My question really is this a typical response? My gut says no, and her rigid framework about sex really is taking away from our bedroom experience. submitted by /u/MySanityCheck31 [link] [comments]
My (34M)recent partner (34F)seems to believe that fingering and oral is only for warm ups, and if I finish before her she refuses to allow me to please her using fingering or oral. I have my “recharge” period to get erect again, and she seems to not understand that even after communication. Her logic is “that is only for lesbians and if I wanted that I’d be lesbian”.
My question really is this a typical response? My gut says no, and her rigid framework about sex really is taking away from our bedroom experience.
submitted by /u/MySanityCheck31
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