me (21f) and my bf (22m) of 4 months have sex pretty often these days. i took his virginity and i’ve only had 1 sexual partner in the past so we’re both pretty much been discovering sex together.
i love him, fr but he is rlly a closed book and it’s been something we keep bumping heads on over and over. anyway so so many times after we have sex, i feel so distant from him. like i want to talk, rlly talk, cuddle, just hold each other…anything… but he just lays there, and today i got so annoyed again bc i was laying next to him looking at him, trying get his attention but he was just on his phone on twitter…. it makes me feel like he just wants sex and then it doesnt matter what happens, he can just ‘relax’ bc the thing is over. its so frustrating as a romantic 🙁
and i know everyone’s gonna say “just communicate this to him” but honestly i’ve tried so many times and every time i end up feeling stupid and annoying bc what makes me more sad is not the fact that he doesnt do all those things after sex, but rather that he doesnt feel the want to do them, y’ know?
please share your thoughts !! (especially if you’re a extremly introverted dood who doesnt rlly know how to treat women lol)
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r/sex me (21f) and my bf (22m) of 4 months have sex pretty often these days. i took his virginity and i’ve only had 1 sexual partner in the past so we’re both pretty much been discovering sex together. i love him, fr but he is rlly a closed book and it’s been something we keep bumping heads on over and over. anyway so so many times after we have sex, i feel so distant from him. like i want to talk, rlly talk, cuddle, just hold each other…anything… but he just lays there, and today i got so annoyed again bc i was laying next to him looking at him, trying get his attention but he was just on his phone on twitter…. it makes me feel like he just wants sex and then it doesnt matter what happens, he can just ‘relax’ bc the thing is over. its so frustrating as a romantic 🙁 and i know everyone’s gonna say “just communicate this to him” but honestly i’ve tried so many times and every time i end up feeling stupid and annoying bc what makes me more sad is not the fact that he doesnt do all those things after sex, but rather that he doesnt feel the want to do them, y’ know? please share your thoughts !! (especially if you’re a extremly introverted dood who doesnt rlly know how to treat women lol) submitted by /u/hoppindies [link] [comments]
me (21f) and my bf (22m) of 4 months have sex pretty often these days. i took his virginity and i’ve only had 1 sexual partner in the past so we’re both pretty much been discovering sex together.
i love him, fr but he is rlly a closed book and it’s been something we keep bumping heads on over and over. anyway so so many times after we have sex, i feel so distant from him. like i want to talk, rlly talk, cuddle, just hold each other…anything… but he just lays there, and today i got so annoyed again bc i was laying next to him looking at him, trying get his attention but he was just on his phone on twitter…. it makes me feel like he just wants sex and then it doesnt matter what happens, he can just ‘relax’ bc the thing is over. its so frustrating as a romantic 🙁
and i know everyone’s gonna say “just communicate this to him” but honestly i’ve tried so many times and every time i end up feeling stupid and annoying bc what makes me more sad is not the fact that he doesnt do all those things after sex, but rather that he doesnt feel the want to do them, y’ know?
please share your thoughts !! (especially if you’re a extremly introverted dood who doesnt rlly know how to treat women lol)
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